redrose123 Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 I'm so tired of my ex being on my mind literally almost every minute of the day. When I think about how we were at one point I still can't believe that he would do this to me. My chest physically aches. I want to love again but I don't think I ever will and I honestly dont see the point in it. If I had one wish it wouldn't be for my ex to want me back. I wish I had never met him and never fallen for him. I feel like such a fool. All the good times dont make up for the pain I'm feeling now. What is the point in falling in love? It seems that someone always comes out hurt in the end..
jmy33 Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 There's no worse pain in the world, then having your heart broken. He obviously wasn't right for you. You will love again, and you will love the right person. Don't wish for your ex back. Instead try to focus on letting him go. I know it's hard to face, but it is what you need to do. If you are in contact with him, you need to stop. No Contact is the golden rule in moving on. Get out and have fun, good luck! 1
nanbullen Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 I'm so tired of my ex being on my mind literally almost every minute of the day. When I think about how we were at one point I still can't believe that he would do this to me. My chest physically aches. I want to love again but I don't think I ever will and I honestly dont see the point in it. If I had one wish it wouldn't be for my ex to want me back. I wish I had never met him and never fallen for him. I feel like such a fool. All the good times dont make up for the pain I'm feeling now. What is the point in falling in love? It seems that someone always comes out hurt in the end.. I feel the same way. I mean, *exactly* the same way! I can't believe someone who I thought loved me so much would hurt me like this. I wish I never met him. He is the last thing I think about when I go to sleep, and the first thing I think about in the morning when I wake. When I think about him, my heart physically ACHES. I feel like the worlds biggest fool for falling for him, and I made a complete a** of myself. Sorry, I know i'm not saying anything that makes you feel any better. But let's face it.....nothing will make us feel better but time and distance. 1
Mr Scorpio Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 All the good times dont make up for the pain I'm feeling now. What is the point in falling in love? It seems that someone always comes out hurt in the end.. Perhaps the good times dont outweigh the pain that you are feeling right now. And perhaps the memories of those good times will always be tainted by the way that the relationship ended. Nevertheless, would you want to be on your deathbed without any memories shared with a romantic partner? My ex left me twice. The second time was very deceitful and underhanded. But, at this point in my lifeI am highly doubtful I will ever have another relationship. Therefore, I will be eternally grateful for the happy memories that I have of my time with her. To me, that is the point of falling in love. It added meaning to my life that nothing and no one can take away. Well, maybe a traumatic brain injury, but other than that.
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