Bob_Funk Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 Even I managed to get the odd one night stand while living in a big city. Sure I was spending all my free time on dating sites everyday, but at least I knew my persistence would eventually pay off. My system was foolproof: -message every girl 18-40 in the city -set up dates near my apartment -walk them back to my apartment after 5-10 minutes of chatting -put a movie in -start carressing them -most of them would get up and leave -if they stayed, PROFIT Aside from sheer numbers, the main contributor to my success was logistics. Pure and simple. It was what allowed me to move from first contact to sex quickly and seamlessly. Now that I'm living in a less than ideal location, none of that works anymore. It's been so long, I forget what sex feels like. 1
Author Bob_Funk Posted April 29, 2012 Author Posted April 29, 2012 What counts as a "big city"? I was thinking along the lines of Downtown NYC, L.A., London. Places like that.
joystickd Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 Not really its just the approach changes but nothing much deviates from that
marsha80 Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 Don't take this the wrong way, but you're shallower than the puddle i stepped in this morning, and it's not even raining here. Get over yourself, and man-up enough to get hurt. You're what I'd call a bully in the 'dating sense' ... you can't get past your own insecurities, so you feel comfortable just screwing. how...impressive.
Lucky_One Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 I'm guessing it's not the population that is the issue with your not getting laid...
marsha80 Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 And yet you are trolling the internet anonymously yourself. As are you. What's your point?
carhill Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 I had better luck after beginning to travel around the world, and ultimately met my exW, a relative 'close-by' at sixty miles away. I'm about equa-distant between LA and San Fran, but live far from even modest (meaning .25MM or more) population centers. I posted in another thread that match had 2 female ads within ten miles of my location in the 45-55 age range. That's been pretty much my experience for 20+ years. The lifestyle I find to be a blessing; the tradeoff is a limited dating pool. Accepted.
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