drifter777 Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 How about: Her: I want you back, I know now that I love you - that you're the only one! Me: Why did you do this to me? Her: I just wanted to find out if the sex would be better. It's not and I love you. Me: You lived with him for 3 weeks; just how many times did you have to fu*k him before you found out it wasn't? Her: (...crickets chirping...) If our WS decides they want to come home, that he/she now prefers us to their AP, they will say anything to try to minimize the betrayal they perpetrated on us. That might be the only thing about all this crap that I understand, because if they told us the truth we would NEVER reconcile. I'm convinced that they will all take the whole truth to their graves. It doesn't matter how many years it's been, I hate that she turned me into her backup plan so she find out if she liked being a slut. Been really tough trying to forgive.
bentnotbroken Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 You were pretty drunk that night. Admit it. So damn drunk....I was drunk in another state.
Author YellowShark Posted May 1, 2012 Author Posted May 1, 2012 So damn drunk....I was drunk in another state. See. I knew it! But seriously, that has to be one of the stupidest things a WS has said so far. To actually try to gaslight you into thinking *you* were so loaded you didn't remember him taking you to a hotel. Wow. That's absolutely ridiculous!
melenkurion Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 It's not that funny what he said but it amused me. My stbxh emailed me recently to ask about what was going on with the dissolution of the partnership. One line made me laugh. "I'm happy with whatever you decide to do, though I would ask that i'm kept informed, as I've had no idea what's going on for several months." You mean like how you kept me informed when you were scr**ing my mate in my bed for several months while I was at work? I know, it's a sign that I am not fully healed that that annoys me even a little.
ISurvived Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 A couple of my favorites when I found out she had a secret Tracfone. I found out about the phone after D-Day 2 in July 2008 when I found the activation email in her work email that she finally gave me the password to after 5 months. Me: So you bought this and activated it in Nov.(2007)? Her: Yeah, but I didn't use it until Feb.(2008 D-Day 1 was in March 2008) Me: Then why did you buy it in Nov.? Her: Ahhh.......... Me: Where is the phone? Her: It's in my office at work. Me: Let's go get it. Her: I would rather not. You see, he sent me a picture........ Me: Let me guess. He sent you a picture of his Johnson. Her: Yeah. But we never had sex. I swear!! Me: You expect me to believe that? Her: Why wouldn't you? Me: Did you really just ask me that? Her: Dead silence. 2
Author YellowShark Posted May 1, 2012 Author Posted May 1, 2012 It's not that funny what he said but it amused me. My stbxh emailed me recently to ask about what was going on with the dissolution of the partnership. One line made me laugh. "I'm happy with whatever you decide to do, though I would ask that i'm kept informed, as I've had no idea what's going on for several months." You mean like how you kept me informed when you were scr**ing my mate in my bed for several months while I was at work? I know, it's a sign that I am not fully healed that that annoys me even a little. Healed. Two years later and I am still angry about my EXs affair. It destroyed my life and ripped my sons heart out. All the therapy in the world will not alter the harsh feelings I have about the person closest to me dropping an atom bomb on us. And for what? Sex and some sort of twisted validation? How f-ing selfish of her. It will always make me mad what those two did. It just doesn't consume or control me. But ya, it still makes me angry to think about it.
findingnemo Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 After I caught her making out with my brother, she actually had the nerve to say that she still loved me. I kicked her out and divorced her two months later after she told me that. Someone should start a thread about the worst kind of As. Honestly!! Your brother!!! Dear Lord, isn't anything sacred?
bentnotbroken Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 See. I knew it! But seriously, that has to be one of the stupidest things a WS has said so far. To actually try to gaslight you into thinking *you* were so loaded you didn't remember him taking you to a hotel. Wow. That's absolutely ridiculous! Narcissism at it's finest. :laugh:
Prime Vera Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Oh my God! My wife who cheated for none years wanted to back pedal to "8.5 years" and argue about the definition of "nine years" vs "eight years" as if there is any real difference? I can imagine the relief you felt when you realized it might have been only 8 years.
Michael Johnson Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 That's really something MJ. Well rest assured most families would be absolutely mortified if that happened. For some reason yours went against the social norm. Stay firm in your convictions because they are definitely off base on this one. Yes it hurts a lot that I have no family anymore except for my in-laws. They've been very nice and accepting of me but sometimes I miss my own family. Oh well life goes on.
Michael Johnson Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Someone should start a thread about the worst kind of As. Honestly!! Your brother!!! Dear Lord, isn't anything sacred? And the real kicker is that they even continued seeing each other after we divorced. I'm glad I physically got the chance to let him know I wasn't happy with it. 1
96nole Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 And the real kicker is that they even continued seeing each other after we divorced. I'm glad I physically got the chance to let him know I wasn't happy with it. OMG!!!!!!! I'm glad for you too. What a pair of dirtbags!!!!
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