mortensorchid Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 As of today's date, is has now been roughly a month since my last serious relationship of six months ended. Instead of rehashing the things that I could / couldn't have done differently (as I believe I did the right things the entire time), I find myself not looking back on me but rather the comments made at the beginnings on this forum. I want to thank you all for your insights and suggestions and comments, because most of you were spot on. Someone (I apologize for not remembering who / when said this) said that if I do not take the chance then I would've never known what could've been. As I get older, I realize that we never get quite over insecurities even though we say that we do. In this case, I realize that it simply wasn't meant to be for whatever reason. I can do better and I deserve more than someone who said "Oh by the way it's over" leaving me with no choice but to say "I'm leaving now", get in the car and drive away. Life goes on, and this time I did not have a broken heart over it. The worst is a lonely Saturday night like this with nothing but my thoughts rather than something else to distract me. But, life goes on. Just thought I would share.
TheFinalWord Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 As of today's date, is has now been roughly a month since my last serious relationship of six months ended. Instead of rehashing the things that I could / couldn't have done differently (as I believe I did the right things the entire time), I find myself not looking back on me but rather the comments made at the beginnings on this forum. I want to thank you all for your insights and suggestions and comments, because most of you were spot on. Someone (I apologize for not remembering who / when said this) said that if I do not take the chance then I would've never known what could've been. As I get older, I realize that we never get quite over insecurities even though we say that we do. In this case, I realize that it simply wasn't meant to be for whatever reason. I can do better and I deserve more than someone who said "Oh by the way it's over" leaving me with no choice but to say "I'm leaving now", get in the car and drive away. Life goes on, and this time I did not have a broken heart over it. The worst is a lonely Saturday night like this with nothing but my thoughts rather than something else to distract me. But, life goes on. Just thought I would share. Cool post! Yep, I'm home Sat night too But the good news is fresh start is right around the corner!
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