Bellechica Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 Way to go CH66!!!! Day 17!!! It's got to get easier with time, right? 1
Forever Learning Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 FL, I'm watching for your new yahoo address. ch Here it is! [email protected] I am so sorry for the couple of days of delay in making this email for you. Give me a holler girlfriend! I will be in and out today, there are events at my son's school that I am volunteering for, and I have a Scouts meeting tonight as well. Talk soon!
Forever Learning Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 Sent you an email, reply here with code word for verification purposes. Cheers!
Frank13 Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 Follow up to "he ended if and I'm dying".... This morning I received a simple text, "Hi". Is this a genuine friendly gesture, or his twisted attempt to confirm that he's in control and baiting me to respond? After 15 days? Really?!!! Help!!!!! Normally I would say breadcrumbs, and it still may be, but when it is just a simple "Hi", they are testing the waters to see if you are open to more. This is especially true if you broke up on bad terms, or if he was the one that broke up and knows he hurt you, but is now having doubts about the breakup.
Author CH66209 Posted May 3, 2012 Author Posted May 3, 2012 He is posting what I believe are intentionally hurtful and spiteful comments on websites known to him. Things he knows I will see, like references to his new gf and things that he and I had planned to do together. Maybe his ego was deflated a bit when I didn't respond to the one txt he sent a few days ago and so he's lashing out. He encouraged me to follow these blogs, then he posts hurtful things he knows I'll see. Is this intentional or am I crazy?
Bellechica Posted May 3, 2012 Posted May 3, 2012 It might be intentional or not but the main thing is to not go to those sites right now. Why read those posts which will just further hurt you and weaken your spirit?
Author CH66209 Posted May 3, 2012 Author Posted May 3, 2012 Thank you, Bella. I know you're right and I'm going to try to stay away from those sites. I think he may be trying to get me to react, and I will not. He's also technically still married, so I imagine his soon to be XW is seeing those updates as well. I really wonder if he's just acting out.
Spark1111 Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 He is posting what I believe are intentionally hurtful and spiteful comments on websites known to him. Things he knows I will see, like references to his new gf and things that he and I had planned to do together. Maybe his ego was deflated a bit when I didn't respond to the one txt he sent a few days ago and so he's lashing out. He encouraged me to follow these blogs, then he posts hurtful things he knows I'll see. Is this intentional or am I crazy? He sounds like an angry child throwing a tantrum cuz he didn't get his way. How immature to post nasty on sites that allude to you. Is this how he would act if you were in a permanent relationship? Start convincing yourself how much better off you are without him. He is not long term relationship material. Ignore him, totally. Do not go to those sites (good advice Belle). Good luck to you keeping on that NC path. You are doing great!
Author CH66209 Posted May 4, 2012 Author Posted May 4, 2012 Spark, so you do think it was intentional stab?
Author CH66209 Posted May 4, 2012 Author Posted May 4, 2012 I understand, Pierre, and will not visit the site again. I have no cards, emails, letters, gifts, pictures or texts to pine over, so st least that's a clean break. I was just wondering if he's trying to pour salt on my wounds with those public posts. I am not a member of those sites, they're public. Is he really just a narcissistic pr***?
Artie Lang Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 He is posting what I believe are intentionally hurtful and spiteful comments on websites known to him. Things he knows I will see, like references to his new gf and things that he and I had planned to do together. his true colors are showing through. he's acting like a lil' b*tch.....he isn't getting the reaction from you he thought he would-- begging and pleading for his attention. Maybe his ego was deflated a bit when I didn't respond to the one txt he sent a few days ago and so he's lashing out. yup. as a man, i can tell you this is true.....immature, but very true. his ego is definetly taking a hit.
Author CH66209 Posted May 4, 2012 Author Posted May 4, 2012 Thank you, Artie. Somehow it really helps when other people point out what a douchebag he really is. I feel so manipulated. I will not cave.
Spark1111 Posted May 4, 2012 Posted May 4, 2012 Spark, so you do think it was intentional stab? Idunno...could be. Listen CH, I think it is reasonable to assume he avoids conflict, right? So yeah, instead of telling you directly what his feelings may be, you are maybe being punished via web sites. Not only is that immature, but passive-aggressive also. Don't even read there. Look at none of it. NC means NO AVENUE exists to be reminded of anything regarding him.
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