crackerjax9 Posted April 28, 2012 Posted April 28, 2012 This guy I'm hanging out with won't stop kissing me for 5 seconds. I'm getting grossed out/annoyed. I liked him alot before all the nonstop kissing. Any ideas of a good way to tell him to back of a little?
daphne Posted April 28, 2012 Posted April 28, 2012 Tell him that you'd like to slow down, and that his approach is a little fast for you. You'd better do it quick before he kills your feelings completely. Just be tactful but firm. 4
dasein Posted April 28, 2012 Posted April 28, 2012 "Whats a good way to tell a guy to stop smothering you?" That's very hard to do sometimes with a pillow over your face. I had a woman like this, wanted to sit and kiss for 30+ minutes. She could actually come from just kissing which was cool and gratifying, but it got old fast. In your shoes would just tell him you are a 10 minute kisser and see if he changes the behavior.
Feelin Frisky Posted April 28, 2012 Posted April 28, 2012 ... I had a woman like this, wanted to sit and kiss for 30+ minutes. She could actually come from just kissing which was cool and gratifying, but it got old fast. .... No way would that get old for me (unless she were a dog and bad at it). But a nice-looking babe who does it good and cums after a alf hour just from making out? Aye chihuahua. That's what ya want. 1
Author crackerjax9 Posted June 7, 2012 Author Posted June 7, 2012 haah thanks guys. i took your advice and told him he was overwhelming me with his affection, that no guy had treated me like that before. he backed off with that, and weve been hanging out for about a month............but i noticed theres no spark in the kiss, like i dont even want to kiss him. Sooo now im screwed. How do I tell him I'm not into him like that without hurting him?
crazylove Posted June 7, 2012 Posted June 7, 2012 Telling him you'd rather just be friends would probably be the kindest way. You really need to stop hanging out with him if you don't have feelings for him, so that you don't give him hope there will be something more. It's pretty clear he's well into you.
Babolat Posted June 7, 2012 Posted June 7, 2012 Tell him you really enjoy kissing, that you appreciate the amount of time and attention he puts into it, that he is a great kisser, but that you also like <insert what you also like here>.
Leopard Posted June 7, 2012 Posted June 7, 2012 I have had this situation before. Tell him exactly what you wrote here. That he is smothering you and it's really starting to turn you off. That you want him to back off a bit or he will ruin any chances of a relationship because it is pushing you away.
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