Ultragsm Posted June 21, 2004 Posted June 21, 2004 Hi all today my ex mm told me someone hasbeen texting his wife and gave her my number for her to find out the truth. I got her call not long after she asked " who is it" i said " who u looking for " and she hang up. Then mm ask me not to tell her anything "ill do anything if u dnt tell her i would appreciate much" I said don't worry i won't say a thing..... Even if i told the truth when she calls i won't have mm back and he will hate me for that. But im so confused i feel im being treated so unfair... What should i do...
kirkyswife Posted June 21, 2004 Posted June 21, 2004 How about leave the mm alone and find yourself a single man to date. Jeez!
supermom Posted June 21, 2004 Posted June 21, 2004 Even if i told the truth when she calls i won't have mm back and he will hate me for that. You shouldn't worry about your ex mm's feelings! He used you. If his wife calls again, you need to apologize to her, but also DO NOT LIE ABOUT ANYTHING! Think about how she feels for a minute as it does hurt really bad when you are cheated on. Expect her to yell, but don't put up with threats either. Remember, she's the one who took vows with this man, a big distrust will be in their marriage. As being the wife, she probably feels like a piece of her is stolen from her, and I speak from experience as being the wife. Break contact from this man quick. He will only drag you down. good luck!
infin.sadness Posted June 21, 2004 Posted June 21, 2004 Originally posted by kirkyswife How about leave the mm alone and find yourself a single man to date. Jeez! jeez another OM hater
VivianLee Posted June 21, 2004 Posted June 21, 2004 Personally, since you are no longer in his life, I think any further problems he has with his wife are between them and shouldn't involve you. If you have caller ID on your phone and cell (most people do) and recognize her number as calling again, just don't answer and she probably will stop calling. You don't have to lie or tell the truth if you don't answer the phone. It's time for you to move on, she is a big girl and as sad as it is that he's hurt her, it's not your problem anymore (don't let this situation cause you to be drawn back into him too since y'all are communicating) unless you get back together.
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