Love hurts...

[lifehurts]

I'm in a very big dilemma, I've explained before that I'm in love with this girl, but she said she only sees me as a friend atm ... But today she probably gave me the shock of my life. She told me she maybe pregnant with her ex's baby. You don't understand the pain I felt. But the thing I don't understand is why she told me, she said she only told her sister and me. So I don't understand why tell me. :s But I honestly have no Idea what to do... I still love her but should I still stick with her????????

[DuchessKaye]

I'm in love with this girl, but she said she only sees me as a friend

 

Go find someone else who will reciprocate your feelings.

If she doesn't, there's someone out there who will.

 

She told me she maybe pregnant with her ex's baby. You don't understand the pain I felt.

 

But of course, I understand the pain. I feel for you

And if she was telling the truth, would you ever want to be with a girl who has a baby with some other dude? It takes a real man to accept and take care of somebody else's child.

But thank her coz she was being honest and upfront to you. I despise people who give false hope.

 

But I honestly have no Idea what to do... I still love her but should I still stick with her????????

 

You should not... Unless you want to commit yourself to a complete torture...

[lifehurts]

She told me she's not completely sure, but she's doing tests on monday...

But why would she tell me though I've only known her for 2months? Do you reckon she's started developing feelings for me? And I don't want to leave he as I will just feel guilty leaving her on her own.

[dasein]

Why is she telling you this? She's weighing her options. Tapping into your resources is one of those options. Sounds mercenary... it is.

[lifehurts]

She's not tapping into my resources. :s Never bought anything for her, I forgot to mention we're 18. :S

[wwwjd]

She's not tapping into my resources. :s Never bought anything for her, I forgot to mention we're 18. :S

 

positioning you as "backup guy"

[dasein]

Resources do not always = "money." In the calculus of whether to have the baby, both the suitability of the father and other options (you) are being weighed. Believe what you want.

[Professor X]

But I honestly have no Idea what to do... I still love her but should I still stick with her????????

Why stick with her? So she'll keep telling you how other guys fu*k her? How they do her so bad she moans? How they cum in her and get her pregnant? You happy with this?

 

She will never ever ever ever love you, no matter how long you'll stay there. It's not a matter of time, love is a game of numbers.

[TigerCub]

But the thing I don't understand is why she told me, she said she only told her sister and me.

 

I'm sorry, but this came to mind:

 

Milhouse: You like Nelson? But he's a creep and he chipped one of my permanent teeth!

Lisa: But I bet underneath he's a sweet, sensitive person… like you…..I guess you could say I'm wanna bring out the Milhouse in Nelson.

Milhouse: But I'm all Milhouse! Plus, my mom says I'm the handsomest guy in school.

Lisa: I like you too, Milhouse, but not in that way. You're more like a big sister.

 

 

 

 

I'm not saying you're a Milhouse, but this girl sees you as a friend or someone that's safe - you need to forget about her and let her sort out her mess.

[lifehurts]

Thanks for the information guys as heart breaking as it maybe...

I guess I'll just have to move on.

But that was her first time she's not a slag, it's just going to take time for me to get over her... My love life's a mess.

[oaks]

But the thing I don't understand is why she told me, she said she only told her sister and me. So I don't understand why tell me. :s

 

So that you'll stop chasing after her.

[lifehurts]

I'm far from chasing, I told her once. She always talks to me ect. I hardly talk to her unless she messages me first.