Awarth Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 so, we break up for almost 6 months now...she just send me a SMS saying she misses me..and apparently she is not happy with her current life..she is still with that guy she left me for..so anyway i tell her to talk to him or her other frenz with she got any problem..we exchange a few more msg, and then she just apologize for disturbing me so late at night and ended the conversation.. so, any insights? breadcrumbs? or she just feeling lost?
TaraMaiden Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 breadcrumbs? or she just feeling lost? yes. Unless she says - i have made the worst mistake of my life, i ,ove you,. forgive me, please take me back, i'll do whatever is needed to make this right - it's breadcrumbs/feeling a bit lost. That said, she does indicate that she still feels deeply for you.... Who knows....? Maybe she was nervous, and hoping you would suggest that to her.... Do you want her back? More importantly, would you take her back? Or not? If 'yes', I guess you would have to make some conditions.....
gibson Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 (edited) I told you before your 22 year old Ex has G.I.G.S. and like most G.I.G.S. dumpers, your Ex has / will drop a TON of breadcrumbs. This was just a "Love CPR" breadcrumb... Her "good time" friends don't really know or care about her, the guy she is now with is probably a chump, player or "bad boy", the lifestyle of partying, drinking, etc. comes with a lot of BS and drama. Since you really know her, since she trusts you, since you are genuine, since you listen and care about her, etc.... She was just looking for you to give her "Love CPR" and feel normal for a little bit. Don't read into anything or think she wants you back. She isn't going to leave that guy she is with, she isn't going to stop hanging around her "good time" friends or stop living that lifestyle anytime soon. Your Ex will disappear again for a while. That is, until she drops more breadcrumbs in the not to distant future. Edited April 27, 2012 by gibson
TaraMaiden Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 (Damn! I WILL keep forgetting to read past thread/post history!!) Forget I spoke! Listen to gibson!!
Author Awarth Posted April 27, 2012 Author Posted April 27, 2012 Hey thanks folks! yup, she actually told me that she dont really had any friends she could talk to...lol..anyway, thanks again! i shall just get on with my life.. =)
DuchessKaye Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 i shall just get on with my life.. =) Nice move
leoc1973 Posted April 28, 2012 Posted April 28, 2012 my ex did the same thing to me at the 6 month mark. I fell hook line and sinker! I was at the point where I was just starting to feel good again. All my pals on LS told me that it was just breadcrumbs but noooo not me not my relationship. We are different and stronger than everyone else. So anyways I asked for her back told her I missed her and loved her and she told me no and I didn't hear from her for 3 more months. Meanwhile I was back to square 1 thinking about her nonstop again. Listen to the previous posters. Unless she does what Tara said don't even talk to her.
Tiera D Posted April 28, 2012 Posted April 28, 2012 Rules 1) Do not contact an ex when he/she is with someone else,they call or text do not respond,remember "They are still with another person!" 2) Read everything Homebrew wrote about GiGs every single post,it has everything planned out if u are really desperate to get her back..meanwhile NC TD
Confusedguy1988 Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 where are these posts haha? I can't find them.
Tiera D Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 Search Homebrew(poster name) ,keywords (Grass is greener) TD
gibson Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 Here are a couple of my (homebrew/gibson) Threads below: "The Grass Is Greener" Syndrome Dumped by someone with G.I.G.S.? All your Questions are Answered within this thread! For me... The Definitive Guide If You Were Dumped (Pocket Edition) G.I.G.S. Explained Another Way
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