Me...IamMe Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 I see people asking if they come back. Mine did. Officially three days. I am so happy, she tells me she loves me and wants to work on a second chance. One thing that I think everyone forgets when asking God for there love back. How to deal with them having sex with another dude, then telling you they just didn't feel anything. YES SHE DID, SHE FELT HIS SCHLONG GOING IN AND OUT OF HER. By the way, she didn't feel anything several times. But just kept not feeling anything. Be careful what you ask for. I do love her, but this other guy will always be in the picture. He is her kids teacher. And I will have to deal with him being there if I want to be with the woman I loved for 5 yrs. Would anyone else take back someone you were with 5 yrs, they left for two months and now want you to deal with another dude for her kids sake? They come back alright, it is never what you dream of though. Be careful of what you pray for. God will answer prays, he just has a real good sense of humor. 4
Gulf-Delta Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 So you're saying she came back, but she slept with somone else during the break, so you're suspicious of keeping things going with her? I'm kinda confused by your post.
ThatDudeXO Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 So you're saying she came back, but she slept with somone else during the break, so you're suspicious of keeping things going with her? I'm kinda confused by your post. He's basically saying: "They will come back but it's not how you dream it will happen. It's not going to be perfect the way you imagine it to be" I think he's just haunted by the image of some random guy having sex with his girlfriend and the fact that he or his gf has to see him often. That can be a bitch. 2
leoc1973 Posted April 30, 2012 Posted April 30, 2012 I wanted my GF back for a long time. Now 1 year later she wants me back and its that exact reason that I will not take her back. Just wouldn't be able to get it out of my head. And to be a little specific its not the Vaginal sex that bothers me so much! LOL Yuck Yuck Yuck!!! Have you been with anyone else?
headsashed Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Well me and my gf of 2 years broke up for 4 months,during those 4 months she slept with 2 people,she came back to me at the new year so we have been back together for 5 months and i have to say that the image of my gf havin sex with someone else still haunts me from time to time,its got easier but its still there,i hope it goes away but i dont know if it will. Its a crippling thought too.
Troubles Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 What if she came back 3-4 years later, and you still loved her, would you still feel the same?. You cant hold back people from dating or being with other people, As muchh as the thought of it sucks, it could have been you. You might have kissed other girls or had sex with another girl during a break. Point is, it sucks but you have to realize that its gonna evidently happen, everyone has needs at times. it SUCKS! buh what can you do?..keep it moving and make her actually FEEL something this time around buddy.
Warrior Posted May 9, 2012 Posted May 9, 2012 Dumpa n dumpa fast friend. This is not healthy. Find yourself some nice chick and make some mad love.
fucpcg Posted May 10, 2012 Posted May 10, 2012 I'm sorry but when people make claims like God went out of his way to bring back a girlfriend, or help your team win your football game, etc..... REALLY? There is soo much horror going on in the world, like the genocide in Darfur, where women and children are getting raped, murdered, and set on fire alive, do you think it would be okay if you stop asking God to help bring your girlfriend, and tell him you understand there are many other areas in this world that require more attention than your love life??? Or is that just God's sense of humor with the Africans? I'll be damned if I can watch a documentary like The Devil Came On Horseback, or I Will Never Forget You, or one of a million other compelling documentaries out there about atrocities going on in our planet, and then ask a Supreme Being to please take his time to bring back my girlfriend, if that's how it even worked. And after all, what makes me so special? I am one person that isn't that bad off, in a planet full of horrible realities. 1
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