spotlessmind00 Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 I met someone I really cared about, from the start I knew he was a little iffy, but I thought that maybe it was being pessimistic so I let him in my heart Honestly, he brought so much joy in my life and the idea that someone loved me blew my mind, I wasn't sure what he saw in me. But right away things got sour and I began to see another side to him, but it was a little too late I got sucked into this dream world where everything could be so beautiful and I tried to ignore the other side But recently I found out a few things about him, and I know I must leave him, but it's just so hard! I left him last summer and without sounding melodramatic, it was absolute death and heartache. The despair got a little too much so I got back together again (even though he replaced me right away). He's a unique person and he's the complete opposite of me, he's funny, outgoing and I guess I latched on to someone who's stronger than I am. I'm very shy and timid. But like I said before, I really really need to leave him alone. I need to leave him without ever looking back even though the (mental and physical) pain is a little too much. How do you leave someone you're madly in love with?
Philosoraptor Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 You realize that if you stay knowing you must leave, you will find nothing but pain. It's not always the easy route doing what is best for you in the moment, but it will make life the easiest in the long run.
lovesick23 Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 I am dealing with the same problem. I know I have to let go of a man that I am so madly in love with. Not being with him has caused me so much emotional pain. I am so sad everyday without him. You are not alone. I understand how hard it is. I just keep telling myself how wonderful I am. Keep a journal everyday about how you are feeling so you can reflect on your positives of the day. You are a wonderful person, and your gut is telling you that you deserve BETTER. and you do. Just hold on. I am. Hold on through all the tears and heartache. Time will heal this wound. You will look back at this as a time of weakness and it will teach both you and I how to better cope in the future. As well as teaching us to better value ourselves, and never settle for anyone.
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