vballtay Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 Keep in mind we have been "friends" for a little while now, but I started noticing things getting a little weird after I had invited him to come work out with me one day: 1.) When we had worked out together one day, he was asking how often and when I went to the gym. 2.) He asked me if I worked any less bc he "hadn't seen me in the store in a while" (I work in the mall about 30 mins away from the area he lives in so not exactly close by) 3.) When asked about what times he casually passed by my job , he said he came to the mall around 6ish bc "he figured I came in at 4 or 5" (I do..) 4.) Completely coincidentally ran into his brother at my brothers sporting event practiceand his brother recognized me, knew my name, and when I wasn't there the next day, asked MY brother if I was his sister and that I knew his older brother (guy in question) ((I have never met his brother in my life)) 5.) When walking by said guy in question and his best friend, his best friend sees me, gets my attention, and points to said guy in question 6.) Walking in the mall to go to work, I just so happen to glance over at a secluded seating area that's close by to my store where one can see everyone walk in and out of , and guess who just so happens to be sitting there .. (guess that's why he figured I came in at 4 or 5 as mentioned in point 3..) Ok, what the hell is going on here ? I should mention that while all this is going on, he doesn't actually make conversation with me unless I start it up first . So well go a long time without talking sometimes while in the meantime things like those mentioned above are happening . Whyyy ?? What is going on ?
Eternal Sunshine Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 Inconclusive. You are possibly reading too much into things.
Imported Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 Maybe he just likes you and doesn't know how to progress it farther. So I take it he isn't attractive and "just a friends" material. 1
truth_seeker Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 What does your gut tell you? He's definitely keeping tabs on you. Finding out your schedule and making sure to be in places where he will see you. If I were you, I would talk to him about this in a public setting. Make sure people are around when you speak with him. He might like you too much. He doesn't know how to talk to you and express his feelings. Don't call him on out on what you see. I did this with a girl who was doing the same thing as your guy and it came off badly. Make him feel comfortable and just ask him, with a smile, what's going on?
truth_seeker Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 How can you like someone "too much"? You want to be around them but you can't tell them how you really feel.
truth_seeker Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 If he likes her too much, than she has nothing to fear from him since she is in full control. That's if he's shy and socially awkward. She has every right to be cautious. I would be if someone were keeping tabs on me.
dispatch3d Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 Yeah, he likes you and hasn't told you yet even though its very obvious. Sounds like he just isn't that great at expressing his feelings with women in general just from his actions.
dasein Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 Will spare the caustic reply I really want to type here and say simply "No, he doesn't sound like a stalker."
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