mrnice Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 5 weeks ago me and my ex split up due to me finding her flirting with a guy along the road on her facebook she left on her phone 3 mnths before and she never told him to stop he even asked if i was in and should he come round on it. sent me of the rails with her i went mad. next day iwent to work away for a week and said we should start fresh and i forgave her. but i couldnt let it go she didnt seem to try or care what happened so we had another blow out and she tried to kick me out. i said no i aint going anywhere you are!! so she went to her mams that night with our daughter. because i did that she said it was over but i still stayed there for 2 weeks sleeping on couch. 1 day she came through and said im booked to go see my friends down south with my friend who said the night she booked it everything will be ok with us to me it just takes time. then i find out she has booked to double rooms and meeting her ex and they have been in contact since we split up and getting inboxes which she denied. i seen history and confronted her and she went mental and attacked me and i got lifted for smashing her phone up. which i done through temper. i got charged and a 2 years restraining order imposed. in the 2 weeks i have left she has uploaded a pic of her in a bra and tagged her ex in it which he said he getting more than that on a comment . and done nothing but slag me of and slate me to the ground on facebook saying i beat her up etc and i never got a restraining order i only got community service. then i got messages from her yesterday saying she needed help with baby. which i cant reply to because of restraining order and then her family all gave me abuse as well who i cant contact as well saying i dont care i have blowin my chances of seeing my daughter etc etc all because i never replied. her profile pic keeps changing every few days saying i hate you ex etc etc. also in that time she has commented on pics her ex has uploaded saying you look fit etc.and his reply to the bra pic was im getting more than that soon.... whats going on in her head???? i cant see my daughter??? why all the abuse towards me cant she let go she made the decision??? please HELP???
Author mrnice Posted April 27, 2012 Author Posted April 27, 2012 how can somebody be that nasty after 4 years and a beatiful baby????
Philosoraptor Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 Ok first, stop playing games. She's gone and you need to accept that. You are the one making yourself look like a fool and an immature person. She's gone and honestly not someone that would make a very good partner right now anyways. Forget about her, him, and whomever else she is bouncing around with. Your focus needs to be on your child. I would seek legal action regarding custody rights of your child. Also, delete facebook. It will bring you nothing but pain and you seem quite unable to avoid it. Delete delete delete. 1
Author mrnice Posted April 27, 2012 Author Posted April 27, 2012 Ok first, stop playing games. She's gone and you need to accept that. You are the one making yourself look like a fool and an immature person. She's gone and honestly not someone that would make a very good partner right now anyways. Forget about her, him, and whomever else she is bouncing around with. Your focus needs to be on your child. I would seek legal action regarding custody rights of your child. Also, delete facebook. It will bring you nothing but pain and you seem quite unable to avoid it. Delete delete delete. Why am I the one that is trying to play games I wrote that up top wrong she was the one that booked to go see ex??? I've done nothing but have abuse, etc etc. there is a little baby involved here she made the decisions so hy finger pointed at me I done nothing wrong
shayla Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 Not saying that what she did was right, but you did kick her and your daughter out into the street, but now you are blaming her that you cannot see your daughter.
Author mrnice Posted April 27, 2012 Author Posted April 27, 2012 Not saying that what she did was right, but you did kick her and your daughter out into the street, but now you are blaming her that you cannot see your daughter. She had her mam and sister just along the road and all my money. I have no family in this area. She took all my wages every week and left me with 50 quid. I have stood back and taken all this from the minute I left. She wanted me to go so why give me so much crap now?? How was I meant to react to her talking dirty to someone else? What was I meant to do just say Ok love no probs thanks for that???
shayla Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 Not at all! I'm not saying that you have to be subjected to abuse! I'm saying that when you decided to put her out of the house you were doing it out of anger and didn't think about your daughter! That is what can happen with a person gets mad and makes rash decisions!!! The fact that she had family right there makes a difference, I'm saying that it would have been best to say look this isn't working out, make arrangements to split...and come up with a plan that could do this without you losing all your money and your daughter being put out.
Philosoraptor Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 Why am I the one that is trying to play games I wrote that up top wrong she was the one that booked to go see ex??? I've done nothing but have abuse, etc etc. there is a little baby involved here she made the decisions so hy finger pointed at me I done nothing wrong You're putting pictures of her on facebook. Come on, you're playing games too. I didn't say she wasn't wrong as well, but without you playing along these games would stop. You are doing this to yourself.
Author mrnice Posted April 27, 2012 Author Posted April 27, 2012 You're putting pictures of her on facebook. Come on, you're playing games too. I didn't say she wasn't wrong as well, but without you playing along these games would stop. You are doing this to yourself. I didn't post pics of her.... She let her mate upload it.. Lol have you read any of this or are you just pointing the finger at me and not trying to help... I'm the one that had been left with nothing while she was the one that was going elsewhere..
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