Sarantt Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 Hi, To cut a long story short my partner of a year has broken up with me because he feels he can't trust me. I behaved stupidly and went to a hotel for a drink with 2 men that I didn't know after I'd had an argument with my partner. I know I risked my safety as well as my relationship and have therefore decided not to drink anymore. I did not cheat on him in any way and I called my partner several times when I was there under the misguided assumption that this would make it ok if he could hear I wasn't cheating. He doesn't believe I didn't cheat and says he can never trust me again. I've never done anything like this before and it's the biggest mistake I've ever made. Is there any way I can rebuild his trust in me? I know I probably got what I deserved but I love him so much and can't believe I did such a stupid thing. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.
Philosoraptor Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 For now you need to give him his space and time to think things out. You made a mistake and understand that. He will need to find forgiveness for you in order for you to ever have a second chance. If he does offer a second chance you'll have to work to earn his trust. Much easier said than done... but be prompt and let him know where you're going to be. If your plans change, alert him in advance. But for now give him space and take care of yourself as if he wasn't coming back. Learn more about you and figure yourself out, as well as drive yourself to be the kind of person you want to be. Use this time as a time to become better for whomever you end up with in the future.
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