jphcbpa Posted April 28, 2012 Posted April 28, 2012 She is a sex addict and you are the love addict in this relationship. Disastrous combination. This is not healthy and you both need professional help asap
Chubbi Posted April 28, 2012 Posted April 28, 2012 Whatever you do, don't play the victim card. Own up to your own low self-esteem and low self-image. A friend of mine had a g/f who cheated on him all the time and he wanted to get engage to her after all that. She eventually broke up with him. Even now, he will take her back if she wanted to go back. She was also very pretty but very douchy.
Enroy Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 I just registered to this forrum to ask you this question. If she wasn't that attractive, would you still have wanted her? If the answer if yes, then you're feelings toward her is not true love. It's purely physical (also fatal I might add) attraction that will drag down to irreversable mess. She's feeding on you like a leach, and through her you feed your own selfworth. Listen to what others are saying and dump that obnoxious bitch. I have a feeling that if you continued with her, she will eventually dump you as soon as she finds someone more attractive, charming, intellectual than you. You will be left with irrepairable emotional scar that'll take impposibly high toll on your life, years to be wasted from your life. Just get rid of that parasite, and seek some counselling.. Wish you all the best
stillafool Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 She sounds like a nympho and you have hopes she will change. Doesn't look like she will change. Stop being needy and obsessed, get a hold of yourself; you deserve better. No she will not change. Any WOMAN who begs her bf to let her have sex with a guy just one time is a NYMP HO and will want other men as well as soon as they show her the least bit of attention. My cousin was one and could never be faithful to ANY man. The reason she doesn't want to give you up is because you cook her meals, clean her house, do her laundry and let her sleep around. The bull about no one makes her orgasm but you is all complete bulls--t. I don't know any women who have great sex with their lovers and then decide to cheat. Set your self free from this cancer of a woman.
Stupid Girl Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 My God, what a horrible story! I understand why you don't want us to judge you or call you a whimp and tell you to dump the bitch - you are already torturing yourself with these thoughts and feelings. My thoughts exactly. I'm so sorry you had to go through this, and I hope you will find the strength to end this terrible, destructive relationship.
nofool4u Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 I don't want to hear "Dump her." Then there is nothing we can do for you, because afterall, "we told you so", and you didn't listen then.
Chi townD Posted May 1, 2012 Posted May 1, 2012 Ummm.... dude. really? She actually justified he affair stating that she was with 3 princes that turned out to be stable boys while she had a stable boy who turned out to be a prince. You know what that tells me? She's not attracted to you. She's only attracted for what you do for her. She would rather have you do the cooking and cleaning and for you to buy her expensive things and screw the guy that looks like prince charming. She gets the best of both worlds. She even admitted to you that she wants her cake and to eat it too! Mark my words on this. She will do this to you again. The next prince charming that comes along and shows an interest in her....it's done.. Sure, she might be "trying" now. But a good looking, fit guy with a square jaw hits on her, you'll get a phonecall that she has to work late. Dude, this chick is gonna kill you and you are well on your way to insanity. I mean, if you were TRUELY happy with her efforts, would you be on here? I'm guessing no.
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