Mcnulty Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 It's been 6 months of NC since we both just stopped contacting each other, (the relationship was getting distant due to my resemtment of the way I was being treat). Ex posted after 2 weeks of NC that she was "in a relationship" on Facebook, with my so called friend. To say I took it badly was an understatemet, but I kept my dignity and did not contact either of them, even though I was angry and felt betrayed. It's ben a very hard 6 months, illness before christmas, friends death in the new year and illness again culminating in 3 weeks in hospital with 2 major operations. I'm trying to get my strength back now and work have said I am nowhere near fit enough to return yet....so, I have a lot of time alone, (I live alone) and i'm finding myself returning to thoughts of her a great deal. The hurt keeps hitting me in waves. just tonight I saw her BF driving behind me, he beeped at me, I kept driving...dick, I have nothing to say to him, but saw he was heading to my exes house/area, I know they're still together, karma is BS, as well as rebounds not working, they're together and it kills me at times. I have quite major health problems to overcome in the coming weeks, feel very weak, mentally as well as physically, lost a lot of confidence, can anyone offer advice on how to move forward from all of this? I know it's only been 6 months, but we were together for 8 years...still feel very sad about it all...probably more so because I am isolated due to my illness and recuperation. Many thanks for reading.
Mr Scorpio Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 Exercise, studying, reading positive books, exercise, learning to play an instrument, trying a new recipe, exercise, meeting new people and reconnecting with people you havent seen in a while, exercise.
Author Mcnulty Posted April 27, 2012 Author Posted April 27, 2012 Exercise I can't do due to my illness. I used to play squash, run and swim and it's all been taken away. I read a lot, getting out making new friends I am limited with, once again due to my illness. It's just so frustrating to know she is building a new life without giving me a second thought and I have to live with the current situation. I'm not a negative person, but feel cocooned and isolated. I have friends and family, they are very supportive with my recuperation, but I'm the one dealing with it and I'm struggling, sorry just having a vent I guess.
TaraMaiden Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 Sorry...if it's not too personal... what was your 'illness'....? I would guess you're convalescing and recovering? Maybe we can support your healing process better, if we know more about it....
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