KathyM Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 The problem with mail order brides or husbands is you don't know who you are marrying. Would you really want to commit your life to someone you don't know at all? For all you know, he could be a really nasty person, with a nasty temper, a terrible attitude, and who knows what kind of crap he has going for him. Way too risky to make a commitment to someone you don't know. That makes no sense to do that. It takes a lot of time together to determine if a person has the qualities you need in a spouse and has a temperment that you can get along with for the long term. Don't play Russian Roulette with your life.
veggirl Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 and you know this how? Oh, please don't get him started.
monkey00 Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 OP, you seem like a fairly attractive girl if that's your profile pic. Why go the route of mail order (if it's not a scam) if you can meet someone here. Hell, even go on a dating website and you'd be bombed by messages from guys within a day's time. problem solved!
newmoon Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 i'm dating a russian/middle eastern guy and have been for about 1 year. i didn't find him online (we met at work), but wow, they are so very different than american men, so be well aware of that before going for one. they are very chivalrous and treat you like gold, but they expect a lot in return - catering to their emotional needs, cooking, dressing up all the time, etc. and they absolutely are not interested in feminism and equality and many of the things us american girls are taught to look for in a man. they can be quite controlling too and like to direct everything about the relationship and your looks. good luck :-)
insertnamehere Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 I know a guy who is 28 and met married mid 40 white women on internet. That's pretty close to her case. She's in her 30s, but not the most attractive woman you'll ever meet.
Feelsgoodman Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 Perhaps this wouldn't be a bad idea for me? I mean I have well and truly given up on love (and no it's not just a passing feeling). I also wouldn't have to pay anything for them to come, just commit to marry them ASAP. It sounds like a really good idea. Go for it!
Feelsgoodman Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 So it's OK for men to pay hot women to fake-adore them, but not for women to do the same? Why is that? I agree 100%. This is a terrible double standard that needs to be corrected in the name of the greater good. American women may be stupid and fat but they've got tons of disposable income. An entire industry can be built around catering to their unmet sexual needs. We can important young male gigolos from Iraq, Somalia and other war torn countries in the middle east where people are poor and will do anything for money. We can then turn them into sex servants for overweight, middle aged American women. The boys would be rescued from their primitive societies and given a chance to experience PlayStation, MTV and democracy, while the women would be so busy getting their much needed filling they'd have no time to campaign for feminist and screw up our society. Also, we can tax this industry and use the proceeds to reduce the national debt. Win-win situation no matter how you look at it.
monkey00 Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 I agree 100%. This is a terrible double standard that needs to be corrected in the name of the greater good. American women may be stupid and fat but they've got tons of disposable income. An entire industry can be built around catering to their unmet sexual needs. There is kind of an industry like that here. It's called male strippers, and maybe male escorts exist too dunno. It boggles my mind how a woman cannot find their sexual needs fulfilled here in America. Walk into a bar or go on a dating site and women will get hit on and message bombed easily, she just has to be average looking. We can important young male gigolos from Iraq, Somalia and other war torn countries in the middle east where people are poor and will do anything for money. We can then turn them into sex servants for overweight, middle aged American women. The boys would be rescued from their primitive societies and given a chance to experience PlayStation, MTV and democracy, while the women would be so busy getting their much needed filling they'd have no time to campaign for feminist and screw up our society. Also, we can tax this industry and use the proceeds to reduce the national debt. Win-win situation no matter how you look at it. There are still tons of poor and unemployed/underemployed people here in the states since the recession. It's still smarter to pay locally as the money goes into American pockets. Besides hipsters are a whole other avenue left unexplored, these people need real jobs...not their parent's money.
Feelsgoodman Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 There are still tons of poor and unemployed/underemployed people here in the states since the recession. It's still smarter to pay locally as the money goes into American pockets. Besides hipsters are a whole other avenue left unexplored, these people need real jobs...not their parent's money. I understand the whole "Buy American" thing, but let's face it, American workers are simply not competitive in this new global economy. They want to be paid a lot of money and join a union. Can you imagine what a gigolos union would be like? Americans buy electronics made with Chinese forced labor and clothing sewn in Bangladeshi sweatshops; their lawns are landscaped by illegal Mexican immigrants and their children are raised by Filipino nannies. So what's wrong with getting someone from the middle east to service obese American women? A sprightly young kid from Libya or Sudan would be much more productive in this capacity than some spoiled, pot smoking American hipster. And it would help with the war on terrorism too...for every young middle easterner employed in the American sex industry there will be one fewer potential recruit for Al-Qaeda to take advantage of.
FrustratedStandards Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 Yah but as soon as they marry and get their papers, they will divorce just as fast.
bac Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 (edited) First, it is very expensive to bring a foreign guy because he would not able to make any decent money living in your country(probably ever). He cannot speak English and he has no education to apply for any decent job. You have to pay for everything including his education in your country because he has no money. All the people who want to leave their countries have no money. That is the only reason why they are willing to become somebody's slaves. Also, the men have different way of thinking then men in the USA and maybe in Australia do. They are very romantic, emotionally open and very spoiled by women. They believe that just being a man is enough to be totally worshipped by any woman. That is why they do not care for their looks at all. They do not go to gym, they take a shower much more seldom than the western guys, their outfits are not fresh often. They have uncut p...ses, so it has a different smell and taste. In summary, if you have a lot of money, you certainly can afford to bring an young hot foreign man for an adventure. Edited April 27, 2012 by bac
Professor X Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 1. You all got trolled 2. All those websites are scams.
monkey00 Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 I understand the whole "Buy American" thing, but let's face it, American workers are simply not competitive in this new global economy. They want to be paid a lot of money and join a union. Can you imagine what a gigolos union would be like? Americans buy electronics made with Chinese forced labor and clothing sewn in Bangladeshi sweatshops; their lawns are landscaped by illegal Mexican immigrants and their children are raised by Filipino nannies. So what's wrong with getting someone from the middle east to service obese American women? A sprightly young kid from Libya or Sudan would be much more productive in this capacity than some spoiled, pot smoking American hipster. And it would help with the war on terrorism too...for every young middle easterner employed in the American sex industry there will be one fewer potential recruit for Al-Qaeda to take advantage of. I understand your argument. But the kind of foreign made products and immigrant labor services you're mentioning cater to a different kind of market. Paying a foreign guy to please a woman is a whole other ball game here....I mean just selling that concept is already hard enough. There are so much ethnicities all over the world, you'd have to have a really strong argument to convince American woman to want a guy from the Middle East that isn't wealthy...in fact penniless and broke and at the bottom of his luck. Why bother with the Mid East if a woman can find it here or in Eastern Europe, Africa, etc.?
Feelsgoodman Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 Yah but as soon as they marry and get their papers, they will divorce just as fast. Oh come one! Don't be so cynical
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