Says she'll be my gf if I pay her?

[NYC-BigKat]

She can't be hot if she's only commanding $50.

 

She is hot & very cute. I'm not gonna have sex with her u know its just a movie date thats all u know. Getting her on a date is like getting my foot in the door & its the best chance I got so I gotta work with it.

[DuchessKaye]

She is hot & very cute. I'm not gonna have sex with her u know its just a movie date thats all u know. Getting her on a date is like getting my foot in the door & its the best chance I got so I gotta work with it.

 

Are you drunk or something?

[KathyM]

Couple of things:

 

1. If someone doesn't want to be your friend on FB, don't harass them and keep sending you silly invites. That's just lame.

 

2. Don't pay someone to be your pretend gf. Work on your self esteem. Even if $50 isn't technically that much - is that the amount you put on your self worth? You can't possibly be that desperate.

 

Also, say she meets a guy that's willing to pay her $60 - what then, are you going to go into a bidding war?

Well said. She'll probably take her afternoon "appointment" for the higher amount, and also squeeze in the OP the same day. Probably takes a few "bfs" a day.

[Shaun-Dro]

She replied a few mins ago lol & I feel so happy. She said I can take her to the movies tonight at 8:30 to see Think like a man but I better have $50 on me like promised & I said I do not to worry. I just wanna pretty girl so bad its aching me. Just to be close to her would be so exciting .

 

She's going to stand you up. I know she is. This whole arrangement to me sounds bad and I seriously doubt she'll keep her commitment of seeing you at the movies. You two don't even know each other if she's just a mutual friend from Facebook.

 

Why cant you just leave this alone, bro? You're bound to get left behind in the dust by this girl.

[DuchessKaye]

I say this is a troll post...could be that EPIC troll everyone is talking about.

 

Where are the moderators?

[Shaun-Dro]

I say this is a troll post...could be that EPIC troll everyone is talking about.

 

To be honest, this doesn't bare the markings of a troll. I want to see what happens later on when the OP comes back from the date that won't be.

[Cracker Jack]

I don't even think the dude is trolling, based on his previous topics. He's just that desperate.

[NYC-BigKat]

She's going to stand you up. I know she is. This whole arrangement to me sounds bad and I seriously doubt she'll keep her commitment of seeing you at the movies. You two don't even know each other if she's just a mutual friend from Facebook.

 

Why cant you just leave this alone, bro? You're bound to get left behind in the dust by this girl.

 

Dammit she said no!! She just text me & said she dont wanna see me now & she kinda seeing someone & bla bla bla . I just wanted to be with her & to talk to her & treat her to a nice dinner & movie but she doesn't want it! I dont know what else to do 'cause I feel bad right now. Why are girls making it so hard for us good guys???

[DuchessKaye]

Dammit she said no!! She just text me & said she dont wanna see me now & she kinda seeing someone & bla bla bla . I just wanted to be with her & to talk to her & treat her to a nice dinner & movie but she doesn't want it!

 

AS EXPECTED!

 

Hey needa talk?

[Million.to.1]

Woman get turned off by desperation. By accepting to pay her anything you were telling her you are desperate and sad. Of course she wiggled out of it.

 

rather than trying to get some shallow "pretty girl" by paying her like a hooker, just so other girls will notice you, why don't you take out an average girl.. Treat her right and maybe even have a real relationship??

 

Any pretty girl who says something like this is just laughing at you. You have already failed miserably at this despite advice from here... She would have already told all her friends about how you were willing to Pay for a date.

 

Hahhahahahahah!! - that is them all collectively laughing at you.

[Trimmer]

She is hot & very cute. I'm not gonna have sex with her u know its just a movie date thats all u know.

No, indeed, that's somewhat further down the price list.

[DuchessKaye]

All guys pay for dates I don't see the difference with him.

 

But I begin to pay for the half of our every meal after 4 dates. And will contribute for the gas if he's going to drive me home.

Edited April 26, 2012 by DuchessKaye

[NYC-BigKat]

Woman get turned off by desperation. By accepting to pay her anything you were telling her you are desperate and sad. Of course she wiggled out of it.

 

rather than trying to get some shallow "pretty girl" by paying her like a hooker, just so other girls will notice you, why don't you take out an average girl.. Treat her right and maybe even have a real relationship??

 

Any pretty girl who says something like this is just laughing at you. You have already failed miserably at this despite advice from here... She would have already told all her friends about how you were willing to Pay for a date.

 

Hahhahahahahah!! - that is them all collectively laughing at you.

 

Avg girls are just as hard to date so not just pretty ones u know . I'm a good guy with good things to offer. I'm not the best looking. I'm avg & I do sometimes go for avg girls but they gotta be a little cute someway for me to ask them out right? Anyhow girls are just being difficult on purpose I'm starting to really see for good guys like me & others. Thats why there so many guys on LS griping about it right?

[Shaun-Dro]

Avg girls are just as hard to date so not just pretty ones u know . I'm a good guy with good things to offer. I'm not the best looking. I'm avg & I do sometimes go for avg girls but they gotta be a little cute someway for me to ask them out right? Anyhow girls are just being difficult on purpose I'm starting to really see for good guys like me & others. Thats why there so many guys on LS griping about it right?

 

I told you it wasn't going to work out. She spared you the embarassment of not showing up at the meet and greet. Move on and forget her.

 

Yes, women are going to always be difficult for us good men. There are more good men in this world over women so this the hand we're dealt for it.

 

The truly good women who love and understand men for who they are as a person are very far in-between. But the men who feel this emotion for a woman are everywhere but can't get their due until middle-age, that is when women realize that their looks don't cut it anymore and they need to hustle for the next available bachelor before it's too late.

[soyou]

Believe it or not. I find you soooo funny and cute even though i laughed my ass off reading your story. Well, you can date me. Often 8/10 men always tell me that eitheir Im hot or very pretty or very cute.

 

Can you take me to a nice movie and awesome dinner? No need to pay 50 bucks for me. Hshshaha

[yongyong]

you seem like a guy a girl would walk all over you. you might not notice but they can figure out just by looking at your face. So it would be hard for you just to go out on a date.

 

you need to get some hookers to learn the dominance.

don't treat them like your gf. Just treat them like how you command your dogs. you can do some experiments too. Treat this girl very nice and see how she treats you back. Treat this girl like I said above and see the difference.

 

Being nice doesn't mean you need to lie down on the floor and show your belly like a dog.

Being nice means you should reward her for a good behavior.

I would expect my dog behave nice if I give her enough food, pet her and play with her. If I don't see a bad behavior, I would kick that bxtch out instead of keep giving her cookies.

 

 

Avg girls are just as hard to date so not just pretty ones u know . I'm a good guy with good things to offer. I'm not the best looking. I'm avg & I do sometimes go for avg girls but they gotta be a little cute someway for me to ask them out right? Anyhow girls are just being difficult on purpose I'm starting to really see for good guys like me & others. Thats why there so many guys on LS griping about it right?

[Shaun-Dro]

Believe it or not. I find you soooo funny and cute even though i laughed my ass off reading your story. Well, you can date me. Often 8/10 men always tell me that eitheir Im hot or very pretty or very cute.

 

Can you take me to a nice movie and awesome dinner? No need to pay 50 bucks for me. Hshshaha

 

I'm sure this poster is trying to mess with your head, which isn't nice since the OP seems to be sensitive and doesn't need more heartache or getting his hopes up only to be crushed on its way down.

[ascendotum]

So so true yup. But I cant keep trying to get pretty girls if all of them say no all the time can I? I need to at least get 1 pretty girl to get up some of my confidence & to have other pretty girls see me with her & then think I got a pretty girl so I must be a good catch right? I'm not gonna fall in love with this girl. I just wanna date her for a while & look good with her so the other girls can see us together & notice me more. Pretty girls always act like I'm not there & its getting to me now .

 

If this was your motivation for the pay per date concept it would have been worthwhile. It was no shock she pulled out of the date, as I suspect it was a stooge act which she will laugh about with her friends. Paying a girl just to be with you for company is desperate, though paying a pretty girl to be with you on a 'pretend' date, so other girls notice and think you're a decent catch is not such a ridiculous concept. I know of someone who did this, with his sister's attractive friend for a 6 wk deal I think where she had to just spend an hour with him (engage in conversations with other girls nearby with him) in a club/bar/party, then she could leave and meet up with her friends elsewhere. It worked, he got a gf after being sinlge like 3 yrs.

 

You could do something like this, but it helps a lot to know the girl beforehand (and not a unknown FB girl) and to pitch it to her along the lines of it being a 'affirmation' sociological experiement or some sort of bet with your friend that it would not work to get another girl to go out with you rather than 'here's $ you be by new gf please'.