johan Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 The ex will lay down the law when he gets home. T will be forced to get back in line. He'll be singing "under my thumb..."
Eternal Sunshine Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 I also have a feeling Tigressa will get back with the ex, although I hope she doesn't.
Author tigressA Posted May 5, 2012 Author Posted May 5, 2012 Are you reconsidering just having a sexual fling with this guy? Because taking it slowly like this is not the normal trajectory for such interactions. What if he is not looking for the same thing that you are? Are you going to tell him upfront that you just want to have sex … soon? I am going to have to proposition him directly--and soon. Getting to know him, I find him lovely to look at and we generally get along well, which is all I need in order to get my hookup on--but I wouldn't want to date him. His overall outlook on life is too cynical for my tastes and the way he's talked about his exes makes me think he isn't much for personal accountability in his relationships with others. The ex has no home to come back to. He gave up his rights to the apartment, and I signed a lease on a different unit altogether. I just need to move my stuff out of the place and whatever is left the building managers are having put into the basement in storage for 30 days and if he doesn't claim it within that time frame, it's trash. He's been calling/texting but I haven't responded.
Eternal Sunshine Posted May 5, 2012 Posted May 5, 2012 I am going to have to proposition him directly--and soon. Getting to know him, I find him lovely to look at and we generally get along well, which is all I need in order to get my hookup on--but I wouldn't want to date him. His overall outlook on life is too cynical for my tastes and the way he's talked about his exes makes me think he isn't much for personal accountability in his relationships with others. Send him my way once you are done with hooking up I am looking for a cynical guy, I always end up meeting guys who are too damn positive and chipper.
Author tigressA Posted May 7, 2012 Author Posted May 7, 2012 Saturday afternoon I called him, not expecting him to answer since I knew he was out of town with his friends, but he picked up after the first ring. I asked him if he could come to my new place this upcoming Saturday to help me with some DIY stuff and he readily agreed (he's really into that kind of thing). I'll be cooking dinner. He texted me out of the blue yesterday and asked if I wanted to meet up; I was already out for a walk so I met him and his friend he was with downtown and we hung out for a little while. He visited my OKC profile last night too. If nothing happens before Saturday, that is when I'm going to 'make my move'. Meaning, I'm going to tell him what I'm looking for and see if he's open to it.
Eternal Sunshine Posted May 7, 2012 Posted May 7, 2012 Absolutely, be bold. I am telling you, he is interested. No guy would come over to a girl's place, 1-1, repeatedly, if he isn't open to hooking up. Then come back and report immediately
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