irc333 Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 I'm starting to hear these stupid advice from people, really WAY out on the limb that when someone DID something...somewhere...that it would indicate they aren't interested. Apparently this one woman said they scheduled a date for a week night, instead of a night on a weekend. A friend of hers told her, "Oh ,man, that means he's not interested" That's like saying, "If she wore her hair up, and not down...she's not interested in you dude." Or, "If they arrive wearing a blue shirt, and not a white.....it means hes' not interested" So question.....anyone hear these stupid examples?
xpaperxcutx Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 Because people are afraid of rejection so they make up excuses to avoid a possible rejection and give themselves a reason to move on.
Andy_K Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 Apparently this one woman said they scheduled a date for a week night, instead of a night on a weekend. A friend of hers told her, "Oh ,man, that means he's not interested" There is a little element of truth to it though. Saturday night is 'prime time' in the dating calendar. Sure, you might sometimes have other plans at the weekend, but if you never see a girl on a saturday night she can often safely assume she's not very important to you. Likewise, if she sees you every saturday night she can be pretty sure she's high on your priority list. And let's not forget our friends the multi-daters. There's only one saturday night every week, and several people to juggle, so the more often you aren't the saturday night date, the more likely it is you're dating a multi-dater and just not as high on their list as someone else...
Els Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 The title of your thread is irrational. So true. :confused::confused:
joystickd Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 There is a little element of truth to it though. Saturday night is 'prime time' in the dating calendar. Sure, you might sometimes have other plans at the weekend, but if you never see a girl on a saturday night she can often safely assume she's not very important to you. Likewise, if she sees you every saturday night she can be pretty sure she's high on your priority list. And let's not forget our friends the multi-daters. There's only one saturday night every week, and several people to juggle, so the more often you aren't the saturday night date, the more likely it is you're dating a multi-dater and just not as high on their list as someone else... What if you were off only two weekends a month and the only time the other person was available was a week where you had to work that weekend. Does that mean I'm not interested? Sometimes those little details mean a lot when giving advice.
Oxy Moronovich Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 Yeah, women tend to listen to the dumb advice of their friends. As a result, I tend to give explanations on why I do things. Example: I got a woman's number on Thursday, called her on Saturday, and then set up a date for the following Wednesday. I told her, "I'm going to be out of town for two week starting on Thursday. I'd like to meet you as soon as possible, rather than waiting two weeks so we can do it on a weekend."
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