TaraMaiden Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 actually,i used to dislike taramaidens very direct and harsh approach,but it made me realized the truth in the end,...... I'm genuinely sorry if you disliked it - but my motive - when I "slap someone upside de head" - is actually to shift their focus. I WANT then to go from desperation for their ex- to irritation with me. The mind finds it difficult to accommodate both emotions equally, and it's far easier to focus on an irritating person yapping advice at you, than it is to deal with unrequited, unanswered desperation for an absent loved one. if i can get people mad enough for an instant - it can work to bring them up with a jolt. it doesn't always work - hell, sometimes it's earnt me an infraction - but it's my belief that being soft, gentle and understanding isn't always "right compassion". sometimes, a swift kick up the behind, works just as well - if not better.
Author macardent Posted April 26, 2012 Author Posted April 26, 2012 Dude, you can't be serious. Did you yourself even not say you were "not that into her." Listen man, if you want to be the dead mouse to her cat, have at it. Let's say you "get her back," might not happen right away, but chances are, it will. There is also the great likelihood that she doesn't "wish" there was, there just is. You are young man, you still have so much tail to chase. This just ain't worth it, especially over some you are "not really in to." Yeah.. there might be someone already!.. She just doesn't want me talk ****. thats it! she doesn't wan a tell me. I will just call it off. as a lot of people said. I am beginning to hate her for her childlike behaviour. I can't believe i fell for this girl. I was happy being single and all.
Tiera D Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 well u can call it childish,or there is another term called "speaking according to her maturity level" doesnt mean u have to be childish,it simply means talking to her in a way that her maturity level can accept and understand.Besides restraining order isnt childish,u just have to tell her that to keep her away from u,not that u really had to get one once u did that,it all depends on ur own will power to make it through NC (meaning no outside influence i.e her giving u breadcrumbs or watever) TD
Author macardent Posted April 26, 2012 Author Posted April 26, 2012 well u can call it childish,or there is another term called "speaking according to her maturity level" doesnt mean u have to be childish,it simply means talking to her in a way that her maturity level can accept and understand.Besides restraining order isnt childish,u just have to tell her that to keep her away from u,not that u really had to get one once u did that,it all depends on ur own will power to make it through NC (meaning no outside influence i.e her giving u breadcrumbs or watever) TD Yeah man its all will power. I was such a strong person, I didn't even ****ing notice this chick when we first met and she freaking mentioned it to me when we were together. She was after me for a whole year. And when she did get me she was being such a nice girl and all, I fell in love. And when I started to care. She left. what a ****ed up bitch! idk whats up with these low self-esteem people.
TaraMaiden Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 talk about a 180.... Reading your first post, you'd never think this last one was the same person... Man you really are a bit messed up, aren't you?
Author macardent Posted April 26, 2012 Author Posted April 26, 2012 talk about a 180.... Reading your first post, you'd never think this last one was the same person... Man you really are a bit messed up, aren't you? seriously speaking she messed me up.. like she was all like you are bipolar and **** where she was the one kept changing. Like first there was a woman who loved me with all her heart to being a woman who just wants to hurt me and tell me later the she loves her self more. like with :S.. that messed me up. And then i flipped out.. I apologized like no tomorrow. like no freaking tomorrow.. when i broke up with her for 3 minutes I begged her to come back for 5 ****in days.. she insulted me so bad.. but i swallowed my pride and kept asking her to come back.. she did! only to leave me 2 days later. I didn't get this woman until I read the stuff about GIGS she is exactly like that.. just wish I found this website a little earlier.
Author macardent Posted April 26, 2012 Author Posted April 26, 2012 I just texted her that!.. Called it off!.. And blocked her number so I won't get hurt by her reply since the only thing that she wants to do is hurt me.. 1
Hope4anangel Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 She isn't going to change her mind over night babe so the best thing to do, is text something short and to the point. "Thank you for agreeing to meet with me but I feel, now that I've thought about it, it's not such a good idea. Take care."
Author macardent Posted April 26, 2012 Author Posted April 26, 2012 She isn't going to change her mind over night babe so the best thing to do, is text something short and to the point. "Thank you for agreeing to meet with me but I feel, now that I've thought about it, it's not such a good idea. Take care." I already texted her this. "Meeting up is a bad idea. i won't contact you again, ever. I wish you good luck" As everyone said she is in gigs. And when we were together she said you treat me the best. I gave her the life she never had. And was probably the best looking and respectful guy she's ever been with. I have seen her exes they are all messed up and so not very attractive. After being with me she thought she could do better. Those were her words, "I Am looking for someone better" like wtf? I don't wan a give her any kinda hope or anything. It's done. I am not hoping for it but I know there is going to be a day when she come back crying asking me to take her back. Thats when i'll open up this GIGS thing to her and tell her whats wrong with her. And ask her to leave me alone.
wilsonx Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 Newsflash, This attitude is the reason you are/were a rebound. You listen to her words and not her actions. If you were the best, she would have never left. She didnt even want to meet with you, you had to beg. This is where you listen to the people with experience, grow up, get help, better yourself and move forward. You aren't better then anyone else or more attractive. I empathize with how you feel but you need to wake up from this wet dream you're having . 2
Author macardent Posted April 26, 2012 Author Posted April 26, 2012 Newsflash, This attitude is the reason you are/were a rebound. You listen to her words and not her actions. If you were the best, she would have never left. She didnt even want to meet with you, you had to beg. This is where you listen to the people with experience, grow up, get help, better yourself and move forward. You aren't better then anyone else or more attractive. I empathize with how you feel but you need to wake up from this wet dream you're having . He actions were: - Calling me 5 times a day. And at least 1 hundred texts a freaking day. - Travelling 3 hrs in a bus to see me for 1 hr - Making me breakfast in bed and giving me a bj as I eat my breakfast - Asking me to meet her sisters - Doing whatever I liked in a girl - Going crazy when one time she broke up and I didn't give a ****, I just ignored. Blocked her number. She went nuts on Facebook. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- I know I was a rebound but the best bf she ever had. Thats not her words I have seen her history. Her ex was messed up, he was homeless at a point. I have seen a few other guys she been with nothing compare to me. I don't wan tho sound like an arrogant smug but seriously I am just telling you what I heard. EVEN her friends were saying he is such a nice guy, he will always take care of you and ****. Her sisters were like where did you find him.. She left because there is someone else in the picture or she thinks she can do better. I know I was a rebound not denying that.. I even asked her (face palm) she said stop accusing me. And I am only talking to you because I know what you are going through.
Author macardent Posted April 26, 2012 Author Posted April 26, 2012 LOL this song helps me get over that bitch!!
Author macardent Posted April 27, 2012 Author Posted April 27, 2012 LOL this song helps me get over that bitch!! I am soo ****ing bi-polar or something http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/323906-i-fudgin-miss-her-ladies-never-leave-guy-if-he-cant-give-u-enough-time
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