macardent Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 So I messed up I called her! I was so devastated she said she was busy. And will call me back. She did in 5 minutes. So I asked her did u leave me for someone else. She said she doesn't even wana talk to me and really wish there was! Please read this thread. This is what happened. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/323049-g-i-g-s-case So I begged her to see me tomorrow, she didn't want to but I said this is the last thing I'll ever ask you. Okay so now idk what to do what can I do make things better? Can I make her come back. Please read that thread guys I only have 12 hrs. Ladies what would you wana hear if u were in her place? Please help me out!
wilsonx Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 lol........... "She said she doesn't even wana talk to me " "So I begged her to see me tomorrow, she didn't want to but I said this is the last thing I'll ever ask you. " Yes begging always works, makes you look attractive and shows you have self respect. Typical rebound behavior
ToyWithMe812 Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 So I messed up I called her! I was so devastated she said she was busy. And will call me back. She did in 5 minutes. So I asked her did u leave me for someone else. She said she doesn't even wana talk to me and really wish there was! Please read this thread. This is what happened. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/323049-g-i-g-s-case So I begged her to see me tomorrow, she didn't want to but I said this is the last thing I'll ever ask you. Okay so now idk what to do what can I do make things better? Can I make her come back. Please read that thread guys I only have 12 hrs. Ladies what would you wana hear if u were in her place? Please help me out! Dude, you can't be serious. Did you yourself even not say you were "not that into her." Listen man, if you want to be the dead mouse to her cat, have at it. Let's say you "get her back," might not happen right away, but chances are, it will. There is also the great likelihood that she doesn't "wish" there was, there just is. You are young man, you still have so much tail to chase. This just ain't worth it, especially over some you are "not really in to."
Author macardent Posted April 26, 2012 Author Posted April 26, 2012 lol........... Yes begging always works, makes you look attractive and shows you have self respect. Typical rebound behavior Guy I know I ****ed up! Couldn't control my self!.. Any suggestions? What to do? Look like a man again?? I have changed so much though. I look different.
Author macardent Posted April 26, 2012 Author Posted April 26, 2012 I am ****ing pulling my hair.. I held back for 2 weeks.. She says swear to god there is no one!
ToyWithMe812 Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 I am ****ing pulling my hair.. I held back for 2 weeks.. She says swear to god there is no one! Your kidding?!?
Author macardent Posted April 26, 2012 Author Posted April 26, 2012 Btw, she did say she wants someone better!
Author macardent Posted April 26, 2012 Author Posted April 26, 2012 Help!! ****ing ****!!!!!! Damn it ****!!!!
ToyWithMe812 Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 Yea man, are you sure this isn't more a case of you wanting what you can't have, rather than actually missing someone you love. You did say you weren't even that into her right? Irregardless of that, do you need to snort some NoDoz, because you need a serious wake up call man.
Author macardent Posted April 26, 2012 Author Posted April 26, 2012 Yea man, are you sure this isn't more a case of you wanting what you can't have, rather than actually missing someone you love. You did say you weren't even that into her right? Irregardless of that, do you need to snort some NoDoz, because you need a serious wake up call man. Man imma be honest thinking about she being with another guy makes me wana cry. I ****in love her man! She was all like I wish there was someone else. I want someone better
smile4me Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 trust me man i did the same thing as you. i called my ex after a week my ex broke up with and i beg her to see me one last time. i beg and i beg for her to stay but her mind was made up. she said no and no. im sorry to say this but the more you beg the further you are gona push her away. you can tell her how you feel but w/e you do, do not say you will change. It takes time to change and do not say i will do w.e you want me to do. That is like saying i gave you the power the control me. just see her and move on. if she comes back after you tell her how you feel then thats great but if she has made up her mind then you will only bring her more guilt and pain.
Tiera D Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 i hoped he did not go out to meet her in that confused state because he is gona make it worst,besides the way u told her ur actually asking for closure rather than a second chance,ur not ready bro u need more NC TD
TaraMaiden Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 Help!! ****ing ****!!!!!! Damn it ****!!!! It's very, very simple: Don't turn up. Don't go. Send her a text simply saying - "meeting a bad idea, I'm cancelling" Then continue with no contact and just keep going. 1
Author macardent Posted April 26, 2012 Author Posted April 26, 2012 i hoped he did not go out to meet her in that confused state because he is gona make it worst,besides the way u told her ur actually asking for closure rather than a second chance,ur not ready bro u need more NC TD I am thinking about texting her this.. Actually don't worry about it thanks for agreeing. I got my closure. You were looking for someone better. I just wished you been clear about that. That's all you wanted! Someone better. That's why you left. Believe it and stop trying to blame me. I wish you good luck.
TaraMaiden Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 I am thinking about texting her this.. Actually don't worry about it thanks for agreeing. I got my closure. You were looking for someone better. I just wished you been clear about that. That's all you wanted! Someone better. That's why you left. Believe it and stop trying to blame me. I wish you good luck. Too much.... "Meeting up is a bad idea. i won't contact you again, ever. I wish you good luck" Is mooooore than enough. 1
Author macardent Posted April 26, 2012 Author Posted April 26, 2012 It's very, very simple: Don't turn up. Don't go. Send her a text simply saying - "meeting a bad idea, I'm cancelling" Then continue with no contact and just keep going. So should I also write that: okay so you were looking for someone better. You shouldn't blame me. You shuda been clear. I got my closure. Meeting a bad idea, I'm cancelling.
Author macardent Posted April 26, 2012 Author Posted April 26, 2012 Too much.... "Meeting up is a bad idea. i won't contact you again, ever. I wish you good luck" Is mooooore than enough. Thanks bro. This sounds good.
TaraMaiden Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 Not 'Bro'. 'Sis'. your attention span is all over the place! FOCUS!
Author macardent Posted April 26, 2012 Author Posted April 26, 2012 Not 'Bro'. 'Sis'. your attention span is all over the place! FOCUS! Loll thanks Sis!
leoc1973 Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 Hey man I read your original post and all of this one. Listen... You gotta calm down you are freaking out and your going to regret it later. Read a bunch of posts on here how everyone made the same mistakes begging and crying and trying to reason with her. I know there is nothing anyone can tell you that is going to stop you from meeting her tomorrow because its just like a drug you need your fix and then the next day your going to have to come up with some new desperate move to get your fix again. You are damaging any chance of getting her back. Although if she is a gigs girl then you are just a stepping stone anyways. Listen don't freak out too much this just snowballs it gets worse and worse and she will reject you more and more. You are going to change all the nice memories of you to just disgust. She is going to loathe you if you keep it up. And I am going to tell you she is probably not going to show up. I think there are probably 5 or 6 people on this post go read our stories and most of us made the same mistakes you are making right now. Send her a text saying sorry but I can't meet you something came up. Thats it and then don't even respond to her for a while.
leoc1973 Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 Not 'Bro'. 'Sis'. your attention span is all over the place! FOCUS! Tara, can you please use one of your Jedi mind tricks on him! He needs it!
Tiera D Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 or simple send "im cancelling the meet up,pls do not contact me or il get a restraining order." actually,i used to dislike taramaidens very direct and harsh approach,but it made me realized the truth in the end,in my story i got a new gf,told my ex about it (she was calm at 1st and showing signs of indifference,but after started to curse me,threaten me and all that sht.)..your ex will probably do the same when u got a new girl.. My advise,send the example i wrote it will kill all the false hope in your mind permanently 1
Author macardent Posted April 26, 2012 Author Posted April 26, 2012 lol........... Yes begging always works, makes you look attractive and shows you have self respect. Typical rebound behavior Man you were ****ing right on!! she is GIGS. She didn't go back to her ex she hates him. But I boosted her ego up so good. I am such a good looking guy I think the best she ever had, she was so much in love with me. Until I started begging and ****. Now she is telling me she is looking for someone better(which i don't think she'll ever find, she is fat and doesn't even have an attractive personality), and that she wishes there was someone else. I don't know what to make of this. I don't wan a hope man. But I want to show her that she was wrong for leaving me. I don't wan a contact her ever again. Not even meeting her. Someone on the forums advised me to text saying. "Meeting up is a bad idea, I won't contact you again, ever. I wish you good luck." What do you think will happen? man you been right on so far. Please tell me what u think. Thanks!. Really need that big guy. P.S. I have a website going up in 2 days which will be a huge hit. And she will find out about that since we have somewhat mutual friends.
Author macardent Posted April 26, 2012 Author Posted April 26, 2012 Hey man I read your original post and all of this one. Listen... You gotta calm down you are freaking out and your going to regret it later. Read a bunch of posts on here how everyone made the same mistakes begging and crying and trying to reason with her. I know there is nothing anyone can tell you that is going to stop you from meeting her tomorrow because its just like a drug you need your fix and then the next day your going to have to come up with some new desperate move to get your fix again. You are damaging any chance of getting her back. Although if she is a gigs girl then you are just a stepping stone anyways. Listen don't freak out too much this just snowballs it gets worse and worse and she will reject you more and more. You are going to change all the nice memories of you to just disgust. She is going to loathe you if you keep it up. And I am going to tell you she is probably not going to show up. I think there are probably 5 or 6 people on this post go read our stories and most of us made the same mistakes you are making right now. Send her a text saying sorry but I can't meet you something came up. Thats it and then don't even respond to her for a while. Yeah man I talked to a few family members too. they are all like bro come on look at you and look at her. she is only using you for ego boost and the reason she is not changing her number is that if she gets dumped by an ******* again, she'll come back to me for ego boost. So yeah I am taking the "SIS" advice and calling it off!! THANK YOU ALL..
Author macardent Posted April 26, 2012 Author Posted April 26, 2012 or simple send "im cancelling the meet up,pls do not contact me or il get a restraining order." actually,i used to dislike taramaidens very direct and harsh approach,but it made me realized the truth in the end,in my story i got a new gf,told my ex about it (she was calm at 1st and showing signs of indifference,but after started to curse me,threaten me and all that sht.)..your ex will probably do the same when u got a new girl.. My advise,send the example i wrote it will kill all the false hope in your mind permanently HAHAH.. thats a good one. But I do not wan a sound childish cuz she is. I even told her what the **** kinda immature person are you? you broke the heart of the man you loved and that made you love your self? she doesn't get it. SHE IS ****ED!
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