Eternal Sunshine Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 I canceled the Tuesday's date due to bad weather. The guy initially said "forget it" but later agreed to reschedule for Thursday. We didn't specify a time or a place and since I am not sure if I even want to be dating at this point, I didn't initiate any contact. He texts me this morning with "I hope we are still on for tonight. When and where would be most suitable?" Should I push through my own ambivalence and go on this date? I know I won't be re-scheduling again as it's not fair on him so my other option is to just tell him that I don't feel ready to date.
sid3 Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 Yeah, tell him if that's how you feel. You'll be doing both of you a favor if you're not really ready to date.
Author Eternal Sunshine Posted April 26, 2012 Author Posted April 26, 2012 I feel bad now. I haven't replied to his text in 2 hours and I just saw that I have missed a call from him. I guess it's time to just tell him, that I am not interested in dating.....
DuchessKaye Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 I guess it's time to just tell him, that I am not interested in dating..... Go Girl!
sid3 Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 I feel bad now. I haven't replied to his text in 2 hours and I just saw that I have missed a call from him. I guess it's time to just tell him, that I am not interested in dating..... Better than keeping him wondering.
Oxy Moronovich Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 I feel bad now. I haven't replied to his text in 2 hours and I just saw that I have missed a call from him. I guess it's time to just tell him, that I am not interested in dating..... No, don't honestly tell him you're not interested in dating. Be passive-aggressive and spineless. Just ignore him. That's the way to go. Besides, we all know guys are banging down your door.
Els Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 Yeah, def do that if you're ambivalent. Hopefully next time you'll see it for what it is and cancel it rightaway instead of doing the 'rain and reschedule' excuse.
Author Eternal Sunshine Posted April 26, 2012 Author Posted April 26, 2012 Done and done. He said "no problem" and that he "understands". He was nice about it and even said to give him a call if I ever think of him when I am ready. 6
Author Eternal Sunshine Posted April 26, 2012 Author Posted April 26, 2012 No, don't honestly tell him you're not interested in dating. Be passive-aggressive and spineless. Just ignore him. That's the way to go. Besides, we all know guys are banging down your door. I wish
whichwayisup Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 I canceled the Tuesday's date due to bad weather. The guy initially said "forget it" but later agreed to reschedule for Thursday. We didn't specify a time or a place and since I am not sure if I even want to be dating at this point, I didn't initiate any contact. He texts me this morning with "I hope we are still on for tonight. When and where would be most suitable?" Should I push through my own ambivalence and go on this date? I know I won't be re-scheduling again as it's not fair on him so my other option is to just tell him that I don't feel ready to date. Then just be honest. Tell him that you aren't ready to go on dates yet since you're still getting over your ex. He's a big boy and can handle you saying you're not interested. Don't make a big deal of this since the guy was rude to you not too long ago.
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