piscesvspisces Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 Ok. I can't seem to figure this one out. I met this girl about 3 weeks ago at school. It just happened one night during an event and we hit off and I got her number. We were both very busy at the time so there was no room for an actual date but whenever we would run into each other at school we would flirt and chat it up. All good things. About a week ago we had our first official/unofficial date which resulted in us doing the nasty. I guess all that flirting and sexual tension between us just needed to be unleashed that night. All good and terrific. Maybe it could've waited, but things happen. No going back. We saw each other again at school a few times and it wasn't awkward at all. We still would flirt and tease each other so I know there was still some attraction and chemistry there. Anyways, I set up a date earlier this week but had to cancel because something came up that I couldn't get out of. I told her and she was ok with it. So I rescheduled for another day. And here's what I don't understand. I saw her the day before our rescheduled date. And I reminded her about getting together the next day. When the next day came for our date I sent her a little text about getting together that night. I sent her this around 5PM, forgot my phone and was running errands all day. She replied that she had already made other plans because I didn't say anything earlier about getting together that day. I'm confused. Maybe I should have sent something in the morning about the date? I don't know if she is just not interested or if I dropped the ball by not giving her early notice. I didn't want her to have to wait around but I just figured she knew. I simply responded that if things fall through and if you're free lets hang out later. I haven't made an effort to reschedule because I've already rescheduled. Any help is appreciated! Thank you all you dating guru's out there.
jobaba Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 (edited) What do you mean "Do you have a CHANCE with her?" Seeing as how you've already f@cked her, the attraction is there, so she's interested in some way or another. You're not going to f@ck up at this point by making a scheduling miscalculation. Pursue, or keep her on the side. Depends how much you like her. But, the main part of the battle is already won. Edited April 26, 2012 by jobaba
Author piscesvspisces Posted April 26, 2012 Author Posted April 26, 2012 haha I see your point. i guess for me i would like to hang out again and see what happens. now that we both have more free time. my gut was that maybe it was just a one time thing and all that playfulness and flirting was to just get to what happened that one night. and since there is no more "reward" i get this feeling that maybe she doesn't want to hang out again and this is her way of pushing me away?
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