I hate myself for this!

[Chrisal23]

I've broken up with my ex girlfriend for a few weeks now and it's been rough. But lately I thought I was feeling better until today when someone showed me a picture of her in facebook. This has made me feel so low and brought feelings of sadness. The thought that I feel she's moved on makes me feel stupid that I fel hard for her and she didn't. Today I was going to a church reunion at her cousins house cause he sent me an email invitation. So I made up my mind and thought I felt bad I thought hat would cheer me up. So as I go I knocked various times and noone answered. I tried calling my exs cousin but I didn't have his number. I had a feeling she was there and that's why they didn't open the for for me. I am feeling worse , today was ver different in a bad way. Someone please advice me.

[january2011]

Ask your friends to stop showing you pictures of her. Stop talking about her. And don't go to functions where she is likely to be in attendance, such as her cousin's house. Invite or no invite. Just politely decline.

 

Continue focusing on NC and taking care of yourself.

[DuchessKaye]

 

Continue focusing on NC and taking care of yourself.

 

I agree on this one

OP, Goodluck!

[Chrisal23]

Thank you all for responding. You guys are right, It's probably best I stay away from the invitations. I will keep going forward , it's hard but I will do my best.

[mattr89]

I know how you feel, you get a good long period of time where you feel great, like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders but them the littlest thing brings you right back down. The best advice has already been posted. Its only a very minor setback, it doesnt matter why they didnt answer the door, your know you have great qualities that another girl will appreciate. She didnt and thats her loss. Its not a reflection on you