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Hi!

 

I am writing cause I need some advice. I've been dating this boy for a month. We meet 5 months ago, when we meet he had a gf. He ended the relationship and a month later we started talking and started dating a month later. He is the best friend of one of my friends husband. He is a good boy, my friends adore him.

 

He's been a good boy, since we started talking we speak every day, he texts me when he wakes up, in the middle of the day and always calls me when he gets of work and when he goes to sleep. We live an hour and a half far away. At the start seeing each other wasn't difficult, we saw each other ever weekend. He works hard so he's always busy. Two weeks ago he told me he couldn't see me in the weekend that he got taxes to finish. I got upset. We saw each other two weeks later (last saturday). The thing is that he hates when I ask what we are doing in the weekend, he doesn't like to plan, I love knowing things beforehand and planning.

 

Could you please tell me if this is normal? Or if it is he is just not that into me. He tells me he wishes he could se me everyday, but life is to busy. Are those just words? I keep telling him, I love his calls, love talking to him, but I need to see him, that's most important to me.

 

Any advice?

 

Thank you.

 

:)

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I'd say you over reacted when he couldn't see you one weekend because he was working. If he wants to see you every weekend, but with any activities planned, I don't think thats bad. It's not the same as leaving you hanging every week wondering if you're going to see him.

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