kaylan Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 (edited) Yup, I only had one Asian guy in my past and it's not just bad, it was really really bad... And what If you meet some really great Asian guys in the future? Are you still going to think white men are so much better? Like I said, I really dont buy that your one experience with someone of your own race is why you like white guys. I mean come on, you dislike your own race of men and conveniently select white men are the best? What about other races of men? Im just saying its pretty typical and shaming an entire race of men for one guys actions is pretty silly and farfetched. Let's see what Kaylan is going to say... By far he is the wittiest commenter for me Lol Im not trying to be witty. Im really just trying to get down to the bottom how of one guy could ruin a chicks perception of an entire race which is her own race. I could understand if a suburban white girl never dated a latino or black guy, had a bad experience with one, and then only stuck to dating white guys after....that makes sense. But to diss ones own race in favor of someone else, especially when one has personal experience with the men of her race (brothers, fathers, etc), I figure a person would know you cant negatively stereotype all of their people. I mean, like who you like hun, but I didnt like Asian men getting put down in the process. You may not notice it, but you perpetuate a stereotype that continues to hurt Asian men in dating, not matter what many women say about being color blind. Edited April 26, 2012 by kaylan 3
jobaba Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 And what If you meet some really great Asian guys in the future? Are you still going to think white men are so much better? Like I said, I really dont buy that your one experience with someone of your own race is why you like white guys. I mean come on, you dislike your own race of men and conveniently select white men are the best? What about other races of men? Im just saying its pretty typical and shaming an entire race of men for one guys actions is pretty silly and farfetched. At least she's dated an Asian guy before. Many Asian women have never dated an Asian guy before. And some of those would absolutely refuse to. So, I give her props for that alone. Yup. It's tough...
NXS Posted April 26, 2012 Posted April 26, 2012 I really like the East European women from the Baltic down to the Black Sea - Latvians, Lithuanians, Ukrainians, Romanians, Bulgarians etc. Some of them can be very cold and scolding looking but the friendly ones are ultra friendly. I also like Asians; particularly Fillipinos and Japanese (don't really know much about the other countries there). 1
Eclypse Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 I am a white male originally from Eastern Europe. I have personally always found white girls the most attractive. In particular the tall, slim ones. That's just what I generally found myself attracted to. I've found people of all colours attractive though but I hope it's not too racist to say that I do have a certain preference. I would say perhaps I am least attracted to Indians. Don't ask me why, it's just how it is.
setsenia Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 I think Asian and White men are cute. Even better if it's an Asian/White mix like my H.
Bob_Funk Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 For a relationship, I prefer short white girls with neotenous facial features. For just sex, my type is "girl."
El Brujo Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 This is assuming, of course, that I'm attracted to women of ethnic groups other than my own (= white)? "White" is a mixed bag... Slavic peoples are white, but I'm not attracted to Slavic women. Oddly, I have a lot of black friends, and they have no problem with me being a giant, some of them are almost as tall as I am... however I am a little envious of their family ties, something I don't have much of anymore. I've always been curious about Indian/Gypsy women...
Ursa Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 I have dated men of every major ethnic group. Historically I have preferred men whose backgrounds were Asian, Latin, Native American, or Mediterranean, purely on aesthetics, as I tend lean towards finding golden, olive or brown skin and dark hair and eyes most attractive, but I've dated all types--even blondes . I have mostly dated men, my only semi-long term dating relationships with women were with one black woman and one East Asian woman. Every ethnicity has something going for them, from a purely aesthetic sense, in my opinion--it all comes down to the individuals and what they make work for them. A pale light-eyed redhead can be HOT, and a Scottish accent wouldn't hurt either. In the end, I married a white guy because he was the right one for me.
ASG Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 I'm usually attracted to white guys with blondish hair and blue/green eyes. That is not to say that I don't find dark haired/dark eyed guys attractive! I do, but the former usually does it more for me. Non whites don't usually do it for me... There has been the odd Filipino or Indian guy I thought was cute (I did work on cruise ships for a while and most of the crew is Indian and Filipino), but there was always something else that turned me off about them (usually cultural or personality, not physical)
Author DuchessKaye Posted April 27, 2012 Author Posted April 27, 2012 I am a tall, cute, white guy with dirty blond hair and blue eyes. From Eastern Europe. Care for a Date? Hey! I'll be visiting Poland end of the next month Too bad, I'm off to visit a Polish boyfriend Let me see what can I do about it
FrustratedStandards Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 It odes not really matter what ethnicity turns you on. All groups have something to offer. However, when it comes to procreation it is best to pick someone that is highly intelligent and from a good family. Intelligence and FOO (family of origin) are much more important than race. I can be attracted to any racial group as long as they have symmetric features. Pierre I have always admired you so much. You are so intelligent.
Necris Posted April 27, 2012 Posted April 27, 2012 (edited) Smurfs.............. Good choice. Personally I don't really feel attracted to Smurfs, I just don't. But this is what I like. Edited April 28, 2012 by Necris
ascendotum Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 lol German. these women u are attracted to don't want you. keep dreaming. A couple of other posters questioned you on this, but it is true. I had a turkish gf, but have found it hard with mediterranean women. Greek, italian, lebo, serb girls very much date & marry with guys from their own culture. These women are very family orientated, and it is important that their partner fit in with the family and their cultural traditions and be approved by the parents/grand parents.
musemaj11 Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 My preference changes depending on the society Im in. When Im in a country where everybody is white, Im attracted to women with darker complexion and when Im in a country where everybody is brown, Im attracted to women with lighter complexion. 1
USMCHokie Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 My preference changes depending on the society Im in. When Im in a country where everybody is white, Im attracted to women with darker complexion and when Im in a country where everybody is brown, Im attracted to women with lighter complexion. That is because these individuals stand out from the crowd...so they are more apt to attract you than the average person in that population... 1
musemaj11 Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 That is because these individuals stand out from the crowd...so they are more apt to attract you than the average person in that population... Actually Im more of the type of person who is easily influenced by my surrounding. My preference conforms with the standard of beauty of the land so to speak. LOL
Radu Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 (edited) Caucasian but i have a preference for dark skinned girls. In high-school i had my first major crush on a dark skinned girl of about 15 (she was model pretty and seemed nice) who had the most beautifull green eyes. Think Halle Berry skin with a slight tan but from roma ancestry. So now i tend to gravitate towards darker skin and beautifull green eyes. However, if given the chance i would love to date a black woman, under no circumstance asian though. By black woman i mean very dark skin than what you americans call black ... seriously now, how can Halle Berry be black, she is light brown. o.0 PS: I'm pretty white and full caucasian features, dark brown hair, brown eyes, i tend to go brown during summer when i tan. Edited April 29, 2012 by Radu
ForgetMeNots Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 never had to think about ethnicity much about dating. I love all flavors except hispanic(even though Im mixed with puerto rican myself xD just bad experiences with the whole lots' culture of treating most women).
Nikki Sahagin Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 white guys are blah to look at. go get a tan bro No need to be rude. I dig pale skin *droolsEzraMillerdrools*
Nikki Sahagin Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 White men (particularly Med i.e. Spanish, Greek, Italian, French), mixed white with black (but only some) and some Asian (Korean/Thai/Japanese). Some Asian guys can look very Med with the dark hair, dark eyes and pale skin. The other races haven't done it for me so far! I wanna end up with a white guy though as our looks/culture/outlooks would be more similar.
Ross MwcFan Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 I really like white, Latina, Pakistani, and Asian. Yoo hoo! Somedude! Someone is looking for you... LOL!
Queen Zenobia Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 A couple of other posters questioned you on this, but it is true. I had a turkish gf, but have found it hard with mediterranean women. Greek, italian, lebo, serb girls very much date & marry with guys from their own culture. These women are very family orientated, and it is important that their partner fit in with the family and their cultural traditions and be approved by the parents/grand parents. Eh, a lot of this has to do with religious differences as well. There's a huge pressure on Muslim women (like Arab and Turkish for example) to marry within the faith. Also, it depends on how well she thinks the guy will fit in with her family's culture. For some people though, this isn't important.
ThaWholigan Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 A couple of other posters questioned you on this, but it is true. I had a turkish gf, but have found it hard with mediterranean women. Greek, italian, lebo, serb girls very much date & marry with guys from their own culture. These women are very family orientated, and it is important that their partner fit in with the family and their cultural traditions and be approved by the parents/grand parents. Nearly every Greek/Serb/Italian etc girl I know have the biggest thing for black guys, especially Turkish girls . Life in London
mesmerized Posted April 29, 2012 Posted April 29, 2012 Nearly every Greek/Serb/Italian etc girl I know have the biggest thing for black guys, especially Turkish girls . Life in London Maybe it's because black guys also have the "biggest thing" for them.:lmao: 1
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