mvosu1 Posted April 25, 2012 Posted April 25, 2012 hi All Dating a girl for a few months and we have spent a ton of time together. She says she likes all the nights we spend together and doesn't like to not sleep with me. and will even ask me to stay the next night with her too. I do not check up on her all the time, except maybe to ask how her day is going. Nor do I care about how many guy friends she has or who she hangs out with. Do anyone think the time we spend together is smothering her or does it seem like I am?
trishd Posted April 25, 2012 Posted April 25, 2012 If that is all the time you are spending together, it doesn't sound smothering at all. I would communicate because different people have different personal space needs. Nothing wrong with sitting down and talking about what smothering looks like in a relationship to her. You can have the same opportunity to express your ideas on the topic too.
Author mvosu1 Posted April 25, 2012 Author Posted April 25, 2012 Who told you that you were smothering her? Nobody did I just hear spending too much time together can be smothering and don't want to do that. We've spent something like 14 of the last 17 nights together. Most times arriving later in the evening to talk a bit then head to bed but nonetheless spending just about every night together. I enjoy staying with and she tells me the same quite often. I just dont want to mess this up. Lol
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