starla33 Posted April 25, 2012 Posted April 25, 2012 a cocktease. Yeah he seems really mean and bitter towards me now. I can't believe someone that age would act this way. Just seriously still in shock.
Emilia Posted April 25, 2012 Posted April 25, 2012 a cocktease. Yeah he seems really mean and bitter towards me now. I can't believe someone that age would act this way. Just seriously still in shock. hahaha what a moron. you are better off without him needless to say. I hope you laughed in his face
DuchessKaye Posted April 25, 2012 Posted April 25, 2012 Did you just ramble? Your post sounded like just a random thought. LOL. What do you want to get from here?
Author starla33 Posted April 25, 2012 Author Posted April 25, 2012 hahaha what a moron. you are better off without him needless to say. I hope you laughed in his face It was over the phone after I asked him out again. UGH I'm seriously taking a break from internet dating.
Pierre Posted April 25, 2012 Posted April 25, 2012 Some women enjoy denying sex to men. It provides power and validation at the same time. You cannot beat that combination.
Author starla33 Posted April 25, 2012 Author Posted April 25, 2012 Did you just ramble? Your post sounded like just a random thought. LOL. What do you want to get from here? Just shocked there are people like this out there at almost 40. That is all.
DuchessKaye Posted April 25, 2012 Posted April 25, 2012 It was over the phone after I asked him out again. UGH I'm seriously taking a break from internet dating. Internet dating sux!
Author starla33 Posted April 25, 2012 Author Posted April 25, 2012 Some women enjoy denying sex to men. It provides power and validation at the same time. You cannot beat that combination. I'm sorry you shouldn't be expecting it on a 2nd date and be mad someone doesn't put out so early on jesus. I do not deny sex when I know someone! 2
Emilia Posted April 25, 2012 Posted April 25, 2012 Just shocked there are people like this out there at almost 40. That is all. Unfortunately I'm not shocked at all. OLD sites are full of weirdos.
Author starla33 Posted April 25, 2012 Author Posted April 25, 2012 Unfortunately I'm not shocked at all. OLD sites are full of weirdos. He told me he was looking for a relationship!
KathyM Posted April 25, 2012 Posted April 25, 2012 You weeded out a guy that has entitlement issues. No loss. 2
Emilia Posted April 25, 2012 Posted April 25, 2012 He told me he was looking for a relationship! The trouble is - and I realise I'm including myself in this group since I used OLD in the past even if not for long - a lot of people on OLD sites are not capable of establishing successful relationships. Not even on FWB levels. Really, what guy shoots himself in the foot by having a go at a girl after TWO dates? Maybe after 6 yes but 2? He clearly doesn't know better or is just nuts. Something similar happened to me, even before meeting the guy he went into attacking mode and I thought that explained why he was on OK Cupid instead of talking to girls IRL (he was quite young when people find it easier to meet available peers)
truth_seeker Posted April 25, 2012 Posted April 25, 2012 Unfortunately I'm not shocked at all. OLD sites are full of weirdos. Yes. OLD sites are full of weird men and women.
truth_seeker Posted April 25, 2012 Posted April 25, 2012 a cocktease. Yeah he seems really mean and bitter towards me now. I can't believe someone that age would act this way. Just seriously still in shock. Wow. This is hilarious! This clown didn't get his way so he yells at you. Don't be in shock. You exposed a con man.
Author starla33 Posted April 25, 2012 Author Posted April 25, 2012 Wow. This is hilarious! This clown didn't get his way so he yells at you. Don't be in shock. You exposed a con man. He didn't yell at me he was just not very nice to me after that and you can tell he doesn't feel like putting in more effort. Obviously! hah
truth_seeker Posted April 25, 2012 Posted April 25, 2012 The trouble is - and I realise I'm including myself in this group since I used OLD in the past even if not for long - a lot of people on OLD sites are not capable of establishing successful relationships. Not even on FWB levels. Really, what guy shoots himself in the foot by having a go at a girl after TWO dates? Maybe after 6 yes but 2? He clearly doesn't know better or is just nuts. Something similar happened to me, even before meeting the guy he went into attacking mode and I thought that explained why he was on OK Cupid instead of talking to girls IRL (he was quite young when people find it easier to meet available peers) Emilia, my other thread was deleted? I just wanted to say to you I'm the type of person who likes straight answers not ambiguous signals. What you term as obsessive, is me searching for the truth of the matter. Just like to be clear.
Author starla33 Posted April 25, 2012 Author Posted April 25, 2012 Starla did you go out with the other guy? No I didn't just 0 attraction with the other guy. I actually liked this one....
SJC2008 Posted April 25, 2012 Posted April 25, 2012 I thought you said he was good looking? You said he was a DB from the 1st date so I'm not surprised he called you a tease (not saying you were). If you let a man in on a second date many may think you will want sex even though you say you don't. Sounds dumb but the guy may think you don't want to come accross as easy and but you are down for a "it just happened"
truth_seeker Posted April 25, 2012 Posted April 25, 2012 He didn't yell at me he was just not very nice to me after that and you can tell he doesn't feel like putting in more effort. Obviously! hah Well, yea. He thought he was going to get laid and you resisted. The guy was probably tired of Skinemax at 3am.
Author starla33 Posted April 25, 2012 Author Posted April 25, 2012 Well, yea. He thought he was going to get laid and you resisted. The guy was probably tired of Skinemax at 3am. I think its because hes attractive and thinks very highly of himself. So maybe a lot of girls put out very soon?
truth_seeker Posted April 25, 2012 Posted April 25, 2012 I think its because hes attractive and thinks very highly of himself. So maybe a lot of girls put out very soon? That could be it. If he is used to getting his way then you certainly got under his skin by resisting. Look at it this way: you resisted and he got upset with you. What if you slept with him and he disappeared? How would you feel? You avoided something bigger by finding out now what kind of guy he is now. I know you like him, but in time you will forget him when another guy comes along.
Author starla33 Posted April 25, 2012 Author Posted April 25, 2012 I thought you said he was good looking? You said he was a DB from the 1st date so I'm not surprised he called you a tease (not saying you were). If you let a man in on a second date many may think you will want sex even though you say you don't. Sounds dumb but the guy may think you don't want to come accross as easy and but you are down for a "it just happened" oh come on i couldn't not invite him he basically talked me into letting him come in. I made it VERY clear he wouldn't get any. So please do not blame me here for leading him on because I didn't.
mtber75 Posted April 25, 2012 Posted April 25, 2012 I think its because hes attractive and thinks very highly of himself. So maybe a lot of girls put out very soon? Judging from his immature response, he's probably a player who would of disappeared after he got his way. Good for you to resist him. There are guys who think 2nd date is too early.
ednadean Posted April 25, 2012 Posted April 25, 2012 nut bag. internet dating is full of them. good thing he's a stupid nutbag and not a smart psycho.
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