meanttolive4ever Posted June 20, 2004 Posted June 20, 2004 i woke up this morning feeling very weird but yet satisfied. I had dreamt that my ex and his family had decided to throw a party over at his apt. I wasnt invited but somehow i ended up over there i guess to just see what was up. I walked in of course i saw my ex and his sister and her baby. I played with the baby for awhile then just went outside and was sitting on the stairs. I got up and just walked around, all of a sudden, my ex comes outside and like comes up to me and says that he needs to talk to me. I felt a little strange but i was like alright and then he puts his arms around me and starts trying to tell me that he misses me and wants to try to work things out then tries to kiss me. I tell him no that he already had that chance and i walk away. I lay down in the grass and i just try to sleep. Then i get back up and walk back up the stairs into the apt where i see all of these girls out of the blue. And they start to try and talk to me but i just ignore them. I see him go back to his room so i follow him and say "Hey" i asked him what he was doing back there and he said he was just chilling. i dont know what is up with that but i found it kind of weird. I dont know if dreams are real or not but this was the closest thing to real i have ever felt. It actually startled me. What do you think?
UCFKevin Posted June 20, 2004 Posted June 20, 2004 I think dreams are effects of random synapses firing in the brain, winding down after a long day, usually including thoughts that were thoguht thru out said day. That said, I've had dreams like this, with the ex, and I wake up extremely downtrodden due to the intense reality of them but they are, afterall, just dreams, and not much thought should be given to them.
amerikajin Posted June 20, 2004 Posted June 20, 2004 I think dreams are a way for the mind to work through things that the conscious mind can't, or won't. The dreams tend to be most frequent and intense closer to the actual event itself, but they can pop up out of nowhere at any time -- months later, or even longer in some cases. I remember dreaming quite a bit after my ex and I split. I always woke up feeling emotionally heavy. Not sad, but disturbed in some way. I once had a dream that I saw her with another man after we had just broken up. Couldn't go back to sleep that night.
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