supermancsm Posted April 24, 2012 Share Posted April 24, 2012 My friend is going through a divorce. I received the following response from my friend after I expressed my feelings for her and need to know if she is interested. "Thank you for being so open with me. It is refreshing to share such honesty with someone. I don't want things to change between us. I need the strength of your friendship now. You would be an incredible provider, and you already are on so many important ways. You truly are a breath of fresh air" Link to post Share on other sites
sid3 Posted April 24, 2012 Share Posted April 24, 2012 If I read it correctly, it sounds as though you're seen as a good friend to have. Link to post Share on other sites
Author supermancsm Posted April 24, 2012 Author Share Posted April 24, 2012 I hope that eventually she will want as more than a friend. I know that I have to be patient and I'm willing to wait. Link to post Share on other sites
dasein Posted April 24, 2012 Share Posted April 24, 2012 Welcome to the forum! Sorry OP, she isn't interested at all in anything other than friendship IMO, and won't be, until she runs out of money. I found the "provider" part of what she sent you kind of obnoxious and mercenary. Whatever, it's a clear sign she doesn't think of you as a sexual man. If you are giving this woman money or some other material support in hoping she will reciprocate with love or sex, am afraid you are opening yourself for disappointment. To avoid disappointment in the future, get the sex first before giving the resources. Link to post Share on other sites
Feelsgoodman Posted April 24, 2012 Share Posted April 24, 2012 I hope that eventually she will want as more than a friend. Unfortunately, this is just wishful thinking on your part. Even though she was very diplomatic, her phrasing leaves no doubt that she is not interested in you romantically...at all. Don't waste your time on this woman. Link to post Share on other sites
sid3 Posted April 24, 2012 Share Posted April 24, 2012 I hope that eventually she will want as more than a friend. I know that I have to be patient and I'm willing to wait. Well that's your choice. I'd suggest finding other women to pursue, she may leave you waiting forever. Link to post Share on other sites
zengirl Posted April 24, 2012 Share Posted April 24, 2012 She's not interested. She values you, as a friend, and sees good qualities in you, but there is no romantic interest there. Link to post Share on other sites
yongyong Posted April 24, 2012 Share Posted April 24, 2012 How does it feel turned down by a woman going through a divorce? that's why you shouldn't do such things... Link to post Share on other sites
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