DuchessKaye Posted April 24, 2012 Posted April 24, 2012 I did send him a long serious stupid e-mail while I was drunk. I know he already got/read it. He didn't reply, and now I feel very stupid. Like, real stupid! How to recover???
WildHorses Posted April 24, 2012 Posted April 24, 2012 I did send him a long serious stupid e-mail while I was drunk. I know he already got/read it. He didn't reply, and now I feel very stupid. Like, real stupid! How to recover??? Did the email sound like you were drunk? Will he be able to tell that you were? Is this an ex? A new person? Just leave it as is. He will contact you if he wants to respond.
Emilia Posted April 24, 2012 Posted April 24, 2012 I did send him a long serious stupid e-mail while I was drunk. I know he already got/read it. He didn't reply, and now I feel very stupid. Like, real stupid! How to recover??? You can't. Time is a healer, that's all I can say. Sometimes you have to go through this to learn a lesson unfortunately. There is nothing you can do about it and it's best to leave it.
Author DuchessKaye Posted April 25, 2012 Author Posted April 25, 2012 Did the email sound like you were drunk? Will he be able to tell that you were? Is this an ex? A new person? Just leave it as is. He will contact you if he wants to respond. Yes, I think he might think that I was drunk. I have never been vocal to him about my feelings but on that e-mail, I did. He's a new person in my life. We've only been seeing each other for 2 months. I didn't want to come off as easy and vulnerable but on there, I think I lost my image to him as a strong woman who can't easily fall... while in the past he always say he admired me for being so strong, smart and independent. Did he likely lose his interest and now trying to avoid me? He was always attentive in responding to my emails and texts, and now he doesn't care anymore.
whichwayisup Posted April 25, 2012 Posted April 25, 2012 either go on like nothing happened, or send an email and just say something like 'oops, drunk email, sorry!' So you haven't heard from him since you sent it? What's the time frame here?
Author DuchessKaye Posted April 25, 2012 Author Posted April 25, 2012 either go on like nothing happened, or send an email and just say something like 'oops, drunk email, sorry!' So you haven't heard from him since you sent it? What's the time frame here? It has been 3 days and nothing We used to talk almost every minute of everyday. I mean the communication has always been there. I know he checks his email every hour. And I'm pretty sure he already got mine. I even saw him online on facebook and commenting to his friends' statuses. I messaged him there and still... nothing...
whichwayisup Posted April 25, 2012 Posted April 25, 2012 What did you say to him in the message? Look, what he is doing isn't very nice. He is purposely ignoring you. Maybe the drunk email freaked him out and he isn't sure how to react to it. Still he shouldn't be ignoring you like this. I would send him one email, saying something like , this is the last time you'll hear from me, but it seems like that stupid drunken email I sent you has bothered you, enough that you're ignoring me and that's not very nice to do, I don't deserve to be treated like crap. Or if that is too much, then just ask him to please call you and sort this out as it isn't fair how he is treating you, especially since you two have been dating.
wwwjd Posted April 25, 2012 Posted April 25, 2012 Tip: Most modern email clients allow you to SAVE AS DRAFT for later review, without sending
Author DuchessKaye Posted April 25, 2012 Author Posted April 25, 2012 I don't want to get into details but on that email I sounded like I wanted to lock him down. I've never been like that. I was always "whatever happens, happens." I tried this one: "Oops sorry, drunk email.." And he finally responded saying: "Whattttt? Did you just get drunk without me? Really?" Now he's making a deal out of this. Is he just making up excuses? Did I just scare him away?
Author DuchessKaye Posted April 25, 2012 Author Posted April 25, 2012 You are only dumb if you think you are. Are crazy people crazy because they saw something...or they saw something, because they are crazy? Is it bad that I didn't understand what you were trying to say? Okay then, I have to admit, I am such a dumb cause I think I am
Author DuchessKaye Posted April 25, 2012 Author Posted April 25, 2012 So now that you know that you are a dumb woman, what are you gonna do about it? Good question! I think I have to be anything else, like be smart and witty, bright and intelligent.
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