What would you give me out of 10 on the hot scale?

[KathyM]

That's definatley not a good sign.

That depends. Contrary to popular opinion on the board, some women appreciate the nice guys. I know I had agreed with some other posters in the past, that you should toughen up your look, but those blue eyes would be contrary to that look, so you should make the most of them. I think you have to play to your strengths, and I see your strength as being a nice guy persona. Maybe get involved in some volunteer opportunities and some good causes, and you will come in contact with women who appreciate nice guys.

[Emilia]

But on the other hand, attractiveness and unattractivenes are universal.

 

Not at all. I like men my height 5'6'', a lot of girls wouldn't date them if they were the last men on Earth, no matter how handsome.

[SmileFace]

I highly doubt he's trying to date himself.

 

I know what point you are trying to make and how it's important for yourself esteem or whatever.

 

But if a guy thinks he's an 8 and women think he's a 2 (not saying that Ross is) then it doesn't matter what he thinks.

 

If he wouldn't date him self why would someone else? Yes it is obvious he isn't dating himself but self esteem is big.

 

What is the point of this thread? He is asking guys? Is he going to date guys?

 

He is asking the women on this board... is he going to date the women on this board?

 

The better you think of your self -- the less you care what others think. It's called having self worth. If you think highly of yourself you won't need validation from others. Ross looks or your looks isn't what causes your problems.

[jorgie4]

Beauty is definitely in the eye of the beholder! Everyone is attracted to something different, and i must say for me, personality and confidence can affect a person's overall looks.

 

I would rate you about a 3. I've dated someone I'd probably rate as an 8/9, but his personality let him down and so once I got to know him, as harsh as it sounds, I realised there was no chemistry/attraction, and so I didn't carry on dating him.

 

I'm quite fussy and I do like a hot looking guy...although I wouldn't aim much higher than myself, as I'd feel too self conscious if I was with a stunning looking male. So basically, it doesn't matter how people see you, as long as you stick to girls on the same 'level' as yourself, which there are plenty of, you'll be fine confidence, however, is the key to everything in life.

[wwwjd]

Elephant Man to Angelina Jolie

 

MOST fall inbetween there. You are NOT the elephant man, so that is something!

[zengirl]

You're in the range where it's highly subjective (3-7). Only 1,2,9,10 are really anywhere near things people can seem to agree on -- the really ugly and the really attractive.

 

You are not my type, so I'd rate you around a 4 or 5, in a pure numerical scale. I've definitely seen men who are less 'objectively attractive' or look similar to you attract women. Your personality will also be a huge factor, as will the way you style yourself (clothes, etc).

[somedude81]

If he wouldn't date him self why would someone else?

Whether he'd date himself or not is irrelevant. Well half of it is.

 

If he wouldn't date himself, then I can understand women not wanting to either. But if he would date himself, that doesn't mean that women would. A can think he's completely datable, and still get nowhere.

 

He is asking the women on this board... is he going to date the women on this board?

He's trying to see if a variety of women think he is attractive or not.

 

But even then, unless he was really ugly or really good looking, then his looks don't matter at all, he's just a normal dude.

The better you think of your self -- the less you care what others think. It's called having self worth. If you think highly of yourself you won't need validation from others. Ross looks or your looks isn't what causes your problems.

I don't think Ross's looks are his problem. I'm not going to talk about myself in this thread.

[Ross MwcFan]

Again, are you gonna poll everyone in the world??

 

So what would you give me out of 10?

[Flummox]

4 or 5. Not my type but not ugly either. You'd totally be nondescript if you weren't a redhead.

[silvermane187]

Your eyes are so dreamy Ross

[Mme. Chaucer]

I would NEVER judge a person I knew on the "hot scale," much less then tell them my judgement.

 

I realize I don't really know you, but in that special LoveShack way, I do.

 

You look fine. Believe me.

[jamcherries]

Ok, you keep asking for honesty and people keep trying to distract you because they're embarrassed by it. A concrete response:

 

You look better with glasses, ie., this photo in that album:

33.jpg picture by RPKGameVids - Photobucket

With glasses you have a more serious look, (the awkward smile thing is not good) but those frames aren't right - you should have black frames, a little thicker.

The shaved head look doesn't suit you, and you should try not shaving for a few weeks. A short beard may help you feel less juvenile/unmanly etc.

 

Your face shows that you are unfit. The expression used is 'carb face': your jawline and cheeks have become rounded and indistinct. This is probably due to eating eat lots of processed carbohydrate (crappy bread etc). Find a forum that can suggest a diet that will get rid of the facial/neck fat (and an exercise schedule like interval running and simple freeweights training). Along with that you should wear better fitting clothes, not baggy sweaters/hoodies.

 

This all seems obvious, so you should address motivation and intention- what's your primary intent? The ambition to 'look hot' is not really masculine, but rather slavish to other's perceptions. This is why if you ask people how you look you will be doing little but embarrassing them.

Edited April 26, 2012 by jamcherries

[Ross MwcFan]

Ok, you keep asking for honesty and people keep trying to distract you because they're embarrassed by it. A concrete response:

 

You look better with glasses, ie., this photo in that album:

33.jpg picture by RPKGameVids - Photobucket

With glasses you have a more serious look, (the awkward smile thing is not good) but those frames aren't right - you should have black frames, a little thicker.

The shaved head look doesn't suit you, and you should try not shaving for a few weeks. A short beard may help you feel less juvenile/unmanly etc.

 

Your face shows that you are unfit. The expression used is 'carb face': your jawline and cheeks have become rounded and indistinct. This is probably due to eating eat lots of processed carbohydrate (crappy bread etc). Find a forum that can suggest a diet that will get rid of the facial/neck fat (and an exercise schedule like interval running and simple freeweights training). Along with that you should wear better fitting clothes, not baggy sweaters/hoodies.

 

This all seems obvious, so you should address motivation and intention- what's your primary intent? The ambition to 'look hot' is not really masculine, but rather slavish to other's perceptions. This is why if you ask people how you look you will be doing little but embarrassing them.

 

It's my medication that has made me put on fat.

 

My clothes aren't baggy, they're normal fitting.

 

I agree that I'd probably look better with glasses that have black frames.

[Ross MwcFan]

Your eyes are so dreamy Ross

 

Thanks.

[Mme. Chaucer]

It's my medication that has made me put on fat.

 

My clothes aren't baggy, they're normal fitting.

 

I agree that I'd probably look better with glasses that have black frames.

 

Glasses are very flattering on you and I think you should go to a fashionable eyeglass place and have the staff help you get a really cool pair. Not necessarily black, but darker frame. Check out Moscot and Tom Ford. They are expensive, but if you can manage the cost, it goes a long way. You wear them every day.