Author marqueemoon4 Posted May 14, 2012 Author Posted May 14, 2012 That's great news! I hope it turns into something awesome for you. thanks buddy.. we're taking it slowwwwww 1
Tree_Salmon Posted May 14, 2012 Posted May 14, 2012 I'm glad to hear this. I wish you continued healing. I'm not 30 yet so I feel like im still lucky to have gotten through this. We are all going to be stronger people.
Author marqueemoon4 Posted August 30, 2012 Author Posted August 30, 2012 Just a quick update... its been over a year since the divorce.. nothing has really changed. Fling with Venezuelan woman lasted just over a month, she turned out to be a complete flake. Some dates here and there, a summer sexual r/l with a 22yr old (yea, I know) but pretty much I'm still alone, emotionally wrecked and financially screwed. Job is dry and boring but ok... I guess thats the way most jobs are. I'm still extremely upset, and I don't see any way out of that. I know I've improved myself in a lot of ways, and still have a ways to go, but I'm still unable to let go of the hatred and resentment I have for my exW. She of course thinks she's done nothing wrong and is surprised that I resent her and the "man" she is with. In my existence I've never had any issue that I couldn't get over pretty easily, this has gone on for over 2yrs now with no end in sight. I honestly have no idea what to do.
Scott68 Posted August 30, 2012 Posted August 30, 2012 If I may. I noticed your post that said you fell in love with ..... that you met tonight. Those are strong words and show that you may be pushing things. When my ex-W of 15 years left it was to be with her 1st bf ever. She left on Oct 15 and he moved it on Oct 17. I felt hurt and screwed but most of all I felt I needed to catch up to her. I wanted a live in GF, so I found one. A nice enough woman not at all my type physically or mentally but in my mind she was there and it put me on even ground with the ex. I made both me and the new GF miserable we became roommates nothing more. I looked for every reason to not sleep in the same room or be at home. Now some time later I am ready for a healthy relationship because I am no longer trying to catch up to my ex. Be ccareful and be mindful of why you are doing things and be well.
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