Brianincali Posted April 24, 2012 Posted April 24, 2012 My wife and I have been separated since last August. We have both had intimate relationships with the opposite sex since then. I must add that we also have a young child. I have been proposing the option to try and work things out between us since neither of us at the same time ever tried to go to counseling together. It was always her that wanted to go then me not wanting to go and vice versa. So she's leaving out of the country to visit family with my son for 3 weeks. During that time she's going to "think" about things. Pretty much wether or not she wants to seek relationship counseling. Everything up until now has been 'what if NO scenarios". So I am preparing myself for both answers. Here's the catch. According to her regardless of her decision she wants to move away together to the coast. Something that her and I have always wanted to do If the answer is NO we live in separate homes in the same community - catch being I fund her for 3 months. So here's my question: Do you think I should FUND her for 3 months if she gives me a NO answer to working things out ? She has a good job here while I just purchased a small size home based medical supply company that can be ran from home or any other location for that matter. Thanks in advance for your advise. BIC
rob_h Posted April 24, 2012 Posted April 24, 2012 If you do she gets her cake and eats it... To be honest the fact that you might fund her could have an influence on her leaning towards a 'yes' too. Be careful. Love isn't about trading material things.
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