budley12 Posted April 24, 2012 Posted April 24, 2012 I am sure some of you may remember my posts, or if not feel free to read my old threads, but I just wanted to say I am starting to finally move on. It has been about 5months since the BU and I have had a very hard time with this. I went on a camping trip this weekend and being alone in the woods made me realize that there is so much beauty in life, and we just have to find it. For the longest time we had our relationships as our "beauty" and as soon as that was gone, we don't know where to look. The world is so vast and filled with so many interesting things and people, so why do we live in the past and dwell on how things could be different; rather than living in the NOW and enjoying what we have and our surroundings. If you are feeling extremely down and depressed I just want to tell you: THERE IS HOPE WITH MOVING ON. I have thought about suicide a few times throughout this breakup, and I am glad I was able to struggle through this. If you find yourself obsessing and constantly thinking about your ex, try and do something spontaneous. Go on a camping trip and just sit under the trees and look around you. After a few hours you will start to see the big picture in life, big problems will become small, and small problems will no longer matter. Just keep at it. I hope that after another 6months I wont even think of my ex anymore, heck by that time I will be halfway around in the world in New Zealand so I better not be thinking about him! :P stay strong! 1
jennisfora Posted April 24, 2012 Posted April 24, 2012 glad to hear it, Budley. I remember all your posts, and i know you never thought you would post something like this in the beginning, and look, now you have! it gives me hope, as i feel most of the people who started posting when i have, are "graduating" while i still am suffering somewhat. but, it is better than it was, and i know it will get better still. *hugs*
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