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I am starting to cold approach again i approached 2 girls in the grocery store today i just did some small talk they laughed a bit but i don´t think they were interested.

 

When i grew up i believed that girls went for personality and confidence because that was told all over the internet and by society..... that´s a total bullsh!!t.

 

society makes guys put women on pedestal.

 

feminism has ruined men....we are programmed to believe men are shallow and women are some magical creatures who only love men for their personality and can spot a unconfident man a mile away.

 

Most girls i know are ALL after the same guy´s, looks are not as subjective as people say they are.

 

When i am talking about looks then i am only talking about the face!, ripped muscles and good cloths won´t do **** if your face isn´t attractive.

 

Most girls have nothing beyond their looks(harsh truth) and friendships with the opposite sex are overrated.

 

Only good looking guy´s are allowed to be confident...girls have told me:

 

"Dude you have to much ego" "your creepy" "your ugly and you will never have a cute girlfriend"

 

I create my own reality i don´t let idiots do it for me.

 

"Aim for the moon, that way, even if you miss you'll still be amongst the stars!"

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What did you say when you approached them? sometimee its the way the guy carries himself tht gets the girl interested.. i was once approached at a market by a decent looking guy but i didnt give him my number cos he didnt seem sincere and genuine enough..

dasein Established Member

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Vent it out man, everything you say is 100% true, given realities of the dating world today. Just think of what an achievement it will be when you surmount all that and come out on top regardless. Envision that time in your life, strive for it, and you will get there. Good luck.

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JesseJames Established Member

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Well, "society" is common means for common ends.

 

"Culture" is the word to use.

 

 

Ignore both of them and you'll be okay.

 

Many women want to be outside of these things, like Fantasy Island.

mesmerized Established Member

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how does that have anything to do with feminism???

 

Almost all societies, whether they have encountered feminism or not (actually countries without feminism way more than the ones with it) think/say women don't care about looks.

 

Stupid men blaming everything on feminism lol Think before you say something, THINK! Or perhaps travel a bit and get to know different cultures.

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mesmerized Established Member

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PS- I'm sorry you are ugly, it's not the end of the world. There are things you can do to work around it but they aren't that easy, however still doable.

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gaius Established Member

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They had an article about this guy who had some kind of disfiguring face condition. He worked out every day, got a 6 pack going and landed an attractive girlfriend. Maybe you're just legitimately creepy.

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Typical Loser Bullsxit.

 

Let me ask you one question 'why did you decide to approach that particular chick?'

 

You approach women by looking at their appearance and if they don't find you attractive, you get mad??? WTF is this???

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Feelin Frisky Established Member

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One should not expect so much from one social risk. And drawing rather damning conclusions because it didn't pay off but caused some discomfort at exposure is not good. Keep your chin up and soldier on until you connect.

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:lmao: I understand venting. The thing is its YOU and has nothing to do with feminism. The others guys can say it too but really its YOU. YOU have to change yourself because whatever you are doing now isn't working. I wonder about some of you guys on here and whether you really want it. That goes for women too. Ask yourself: Do you really want to date and meet women or just keep on doing what you do and whine and have a pity party?
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Logic does not compute.

 

When you cold approach women, they don't know you from adam. How in the world would they have any idea of what your personality is like or even how confident you are, beyond a couple of jokes and a brief meet and greet? :rolleyes:

SteveC80 Established Member

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Better you learned this later sooner then later

 

Women are just as shallow and visual then men probably moreso to be honest

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CC12 Established Member

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I tried talking to two girls today, but they weren't interested. GRRR FEMINISM!!!!1

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Since my experience has nothing in common with yours in any way whatsoever, does that make you another lying member of society?

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I am starting to cold approach again i approached 2 girls in the grocery store today i just did some small talk they laughed a bit but i don´t think they were interested.

 

When i grew up i believed that girls went for personality and confidence because that was told all over the internet and by society..... that´s a total bullsh!!t.

 

society makes guys put women on pedestal.

 

feminism has ruined men....we are programmed to believe men are shallow and women are some magical creatures who only love men for their personality and can spot a unconfident man a mile away.

 

Most girls i know are ALL after the same guy´s, looks are not as subjective as people say they are.

 

When i am talking about looks then i am only talking about the face!, ripped muscles and good cloths won´t do **** if your face isn´t attractive.

 

Most girls have nothing beyond their looks(harsh truth) and friendships with the opposite sex are overrated.

 

Only good looking guy´s are allowed to be confident...girls have told me:

 

"Dude you have to much ego" "your creepy" "your ugly and you will never have a cute girlfriend"

 

I create my own reality i don´t let idiots do it for me.

 

"Aim for the moon, that way, even if you miss you'll still be amongst the stars!"

 

 

OP, hello!?? It's you're creepy and you're ugly. Not your.

 

Also, your reality sucks.

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I am starting to cold approach again i approached 2 girls in the grocery store today i just did some small talk they laughed a bit but i don´t think they were interested.

 

When i grew up i believed that girls went for personality and confidence because that was told all over the internet and by society..... that´s a total bullsh!!t.

 

society makes guys put women on pedestal.

 

feminism has ruined men....we are programmed to believe men are shallow and women are some magical creatures who only love men for their personality and can spot a unconfident man a mile away.

 

Most girls i know are ALL after the same guy´s, looks are not as subjective as people say they are.

 

When i am talking about looks then i am only talking about the face!, ripped muscles and good cloths won´t do **** if your face isn´t attractive.

 

Most girls have nothing beyond their looks(harsh truth) and friendships with the opposite sex are overrated.

 

Only good looking guy´s are allowed to be confident...girls have told me:

 

"Dude you have to much ego" "your creepy" "your ugly and you will never have a cute girlfriend"

 

I create my own reality i don´t let idiots do it for me.

 

"Aim for the moon, that way, even if you miss you'll still be amongst the stars!"

Playful confidence is a must when you're not super attractive. In other words, you're doing it wrong.

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Necromancer Established Member

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Typical Loser Bullsxit.

 

Let me ask you one question 'why did you decide to approach that particular chick?'

 

You approach women by looking at their appearance and if they don't find you attractive, you get mad??? WTF is this???

 

I approach girls that i am attracted to....if i didn't do that then i would be a fool. (i don´t aim for 9/10´s look wise) If i am attracted to her then that´s more than enough.

 

I don´t get mad at them for not finding me attractive.....attraction isn't a choice.

 

I get mad at society for feeding me with bull**** while i grew up and when you realise the truth then it´s pretty hard to accept it.

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Necromancer Established Member

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Playful confidence is a must when you're not super attractive. In other words, you're doing it wrong.

 

Dude i have been told 4354235245243565234 times by girls "dude your so fun to be around" "your so funny" and i have few times been rejected by girls that have told me that.

 

I have all the confidence i need, this sucks bricks.

 

i am very extrovert. :bunny:

Emilia Established Member

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When i am talking about looks then i am only talking about the face!, ripped muscles and good cloths won´t do **** if your face isn´t attractive.

 

Depends on the woman. I rate a good body before a handsome face

 

Most girls have nothing beyond their looks(harsh truth) and friendships with the opposite sex are overrated.

 

This is your real issue. You can't relate to women and I'm assuming as a result your social skills are not brilliant. Until you sort it out you will always struggle.

Emilia Established Member

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I have all the confidence i need, this sucks bricks.

 

i am very extrovert. :bunny:

 

Somehow I don't believe this. Why would a very extroverted person post on a board like this?

firehawk_1 Established Member

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indeed. its how women are these days. very shallow, egotistical, hypocritical and unrealistic people. its a sad fact. then you hear "oh i cant find a nice guy" and act all innocently when:

 

a) its in front of them

b) they mess up big time

c) they try to get a guy who by no fault of his own is messed up because of the experience from his past women and how women are in todays society

 

fact. why do you think there are so many single and unhappy people? women dont seem to get it or listen to it.

 

be realistic women. not shallow. you thinking shallow is the best thing, is clearly not. you also become and show you are far up yourselves with this attitude which is probably why you cant find a guy and sleep around instead as its "easier" :rolleyes: - sorry, just saying how it is.

 

women judge far too much and dictate. its been proven in this thread alone. they just cant accept it then blame the rest and the other person than themselves because they cant take it and dont like being open minded (another shallow quality). corrupt morals and ethics and basics. so dont even try to defend a losing battle (as the saying goes!)

 

sometimes I wonder why us guys bother.

agreed with the OP 10000%

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Necromancer Established Member

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Somehow I don't believe this. Why would a very extroverted person post on a board like this?

 

Being extroverted will not guarantee success with girls, im still very young through.

 

I know allot of girls but i have never had a girlfriend....and i found this site by an accident :D

Els Established Member

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OP, hello!?? It's you're creepy and you're ugly. Not your.

 

Also, your reality sucks.

 

Shhh. Society is just biased towards men who failed preschool grammar/spelling, in addition to short men, ugly men, and non-confident men. Clearly it's feminism's fault that he can't spell. Not his. ;)

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Necromancer Established Member

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Shhh. Society is just biased towards men who failed preschool grammar/spelling, in addition to short men, ugly men, and non-confident men. Clearly it's feminism's fault that he can't spell. Not his. ;)

 

English is not my first language.

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English is not my first language.

 

Neither is it mine. What's your point? :)

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