123321 Posted April 24, 2012 Posted April 24, 2012 Tropics?hawaii? You sound like a totally different person from a few hours ago.. much more friendly. I apologize for being rude early and sayin u date skeletons. i hope others think its ok like u too, but tinypic gona remove the link regardless., oh well :| I'm sort of knocking around in Asia at the moment, I got tired of paying a metric a$$load of taxes for things I disagree with, so I changed my life. I'm often clumsy I guess is the best way to put it, socially. I think the things that upset you were in response to someone else and I sort of answered as if you were not "in the room", which was cloddish of me. Sorry for that, never meant any harm. Others will see what they want to see, my advice on that is that you have nothing legit to be ashamed of and you shouldn't worry about that. One other thing you should know if you don't, is that women tend to underestimate the importance of a pretty face - guys will be really really distracted by a pretty face. You look sort of like you have some Filipino or Pacific Islander ancestry, mixed with Caucasian maybe? Don't feel obligated to answer that.
Author kaywii Posted April 24, 2012 Author Posted April 24, 2012 (edited) You look sort of like you have some Filipino or Pacific Islander ancestry, mixed with Caucasian maybe? Don't feel obligated to answer that. I get that alot. Usually im mistaken for filipino,korean,pacific islander or asian mixed caucasian. I think its my cheekbones that confused people... or maybe something else? im still trying to figure it out. Im almost 100% chinese, however my great great grandmother was french. My grandfather looks 100% chinese unlike his biracial mother (my great grandmother).. my mom also looks very chinese.. Edited April 24, 2012 by kaywii
123321 Posted April 24, 2012 Posted April 24, 2012 .... I think its my cheekbones that confused people. Absolutely right. You look pale but not so Chinese to me. The fellas here would be chasing you day and night, pale skin is a big deal here, for the locals. I guess it's prestigious somehow. Maybe it means you're not working in the sun all day. Who knows. Are those pictures recent, or have you dropped the 8 pounds since they were shot?
Eternal Sunshine Posted April 24, 2012 Posted April 24, 2012 Once, a guy rejected me after I offered him a (no strings attached) sex - not my proudest moment. He was my brother's tennis coach and he already asked me out. We went out few times and made out and stuff but never had sex because I stopped it (then later changed my mind). Anyhow, he then rejected my offer of sex and didn't want to date me any further. He was hot, perfect body, six pack and all. I assumed he rejected me because I wasn't slim enough. In fact, I was 100% sure of it. I put it behind me, it was a long time ago. Few days ago, I came across his OKCupid profile. I read his match question where he says that he prefers curvy girls and is in fact attracted to over-weight females So yeah, looks like his rejection didn't have anything to do with my weight. Just saying you don't really know why he rejected you.... 2
Author kaywii Posted April 24, 2012 Author Posted April 24, 2012 Absolutely right. You look pale but not so Chinese to me. The fellas here would be chasing you day and night, pale skin is a big deal here, for the locals. I guess it's prestigious somehow. Maybe it means you're not working in the sun all day. Who knows. Are those pictures recent, or have you dropped the 8 pounds since they were shot? Where in asia are you residing? Pale is a big deal in most of asia, along with being skinny. they were taken yesterday, i plan on taking another pic when i lose 20lbs and post it in the health and diet board.
Author kaywii Posted April 24, 2012 Author Posted April 24, 2012 Once, a guy rejected me after I offered him a (no strings attached) sex - not my proudest moment. He was my brother's tennis coach and he already asked me out. We went out few times and made out and stuff but never had sex because I stopped it (then later changed my mind). Anyhow, he then rejected my offer of sex and didn't want to date me any further. He was hot, perfect body, six pack and all. I assumed he rejected me because I wasn't slim enough. In fact, I was 100% sure of it. I put it behind me, it was a long time ago. Few days ago, I came across his OKCupid profile. I read his match question where he says that he prefers curvy girls and is in fact attracted to over-weight females So yeah, looks like his rejection didn't have anything to do with my weight. Just saying you don't really know why he rejected you.... im sorry to hear that.. maybe its becos he knows ur brother and wants to avoid that kind of drama.. you are a beautiful woman, the perfect man for you is on his way
123321 Posted April 24, 2012 Posted April 24, 2012 Where in asia are you residing? Pale is a big deal in most of asia, along with being skinny. they were taken yesterday, i plan on taking another pic when i lose 20lbs and post it in the health and diet board. I've been around in India and Southeast Asia, I'm in the Philippines near the South China sea currently. Really nice weather and good diving here. I know people talk pounds, but if I were you I'd express my goal in inches, waist or where ever you care about. It sounds silly but as you work out, you will become more muscular, in a good way, and that will make you slimmer and not that much lighter, if that makes sense. So exercising your way to a weight goal can be unduly frustrating, is all I'm saying. Make it "when I fit into that, I'm at my goal", or something like that. 1
Author kaywii Posted April 24, 2012 Author Posted April 24, 2012 (edited) I've been around in India and Southeast Asia, I'm in the Philippines near the South China sea currently. Really nice weather and good diving here. I know people talk pounds, but if I were you I'd express my goal in inches, waist or where ever you care about. It sounds silly but as you work out, you will become more muscular, in a good way, and that will make you slimmer and not that much lighter, if that makes sense. So exercising your way to a weight goal can be unduly frustrating, is all I'm saying. Make it "when I fit into that, I'm at my goal", or something like that. Makes perfect sense! Thank you for the advice again. Im heading to bed now as i have to wake up early tomorrow to run some errands.. thank you for the chat, have a wonderful rest of the Tuesday 12332 Edited April 24, 2012 by kaywii
Oxy Moronovich Posted April 25, 2012 Posted April 25, 2012 OP, I'm a white guy (I'm just putting that in case you care) and you look fine to me. Also, I applaud you for having the backbone to put up your actual pics. Posters here will tell you, "grow up" or "you're too big" but few of them have the courage to be honest as you are and post their pic. So you're more adult and honest than the majority of posters here. I salute you. 2
mesmerized Posted April 25, 2012 Posted April 25, 2012 OP, I'm a white guy (I'm just putting that in case you care) and you look fine to me. Also, I applaud you for having the backbone to put up your actual pics. Posters here will tell you, "grow up" or "you're too big" but few of them have the courage to be honest as you are and post their pic. So you're more adult and honest than the majority of posters here. I salute you. lol, they know they will be laughed at. You all probably know the pointy elbow story: http://troll.me/images/butthurt-dweller/6510-pointy-elbows-get-to-me-thumb.jpg
Eddie Edirol Posted April 25, 2012 Posted April 25, 2012 Kay you look pretty slim to me. Almost not curvy. But if you think curvy means chunky, then dont say curvy, because you look like you have no fat on you at all. The guy you like might like the women who look like 13 year old girls, with no body shape at all, and unhealthily skinny. TV actors look like this. This isnt the majority of guys, they dont all like extremely skinny women, so youre not out of the running.
Author kaywii Posted April 25, 2012 Author Posted April 25, 2012 OP, I'm a white guy (I'm just putting that in case you care) and you look fine to me. Also, I applaud you for having the backbone to put up your actual pics. Posters here will tell you, "grow up" or "you're too big" but few of them have the courage to be honest as you are and post their pic. So you're more adult and honest than the majority of posters here. I salute you. thank you Oxy
Author kaywii Posted April 25, 2012 Author Posted April 25, 2012 lol, they know they will be laughed at. You all probably know the pointy elbow story: http://troll.me/images/butthurt-dweller/6510-pointy-elbows-get-to-me-thumb.jpg i dont .....
Author kaywii Posted April 25, 2012 Author Posted April 25, 2012 Kay you look pretty slim to me. Almost not curvy. But if you think curvy means chunky, then dont say curvy, because you look like you have no fat on you at all. The guy you like might like the women who look like 13 year old girls, with no body shape at all, and unhealthily skinny. TV actors look like this. This isnt the majority of guys, they dont all like extremely skinny women, so youre not out of the running. I removed the first link.. maybe if u saw it u would think otherwise lol thank you eddie for your opinion!
Eddie Edirol Posted April 25, 2012 Posted April 25, 2012 I removed the first link.. maybe if u saw it u would think otherwise lol thank you eddie for your opinion! Oh no I saw the links when you first posted it days ago, my opinion still stands. The guy is a stick loving ass.
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