mymission Posted April 23, 2012 Posted April 23, 2012 Its been about 2 months since the BU. Its been 2 weeks since I last spoke to him and the last time I cried. He's still there and I still think about him but not obsessively like I was. And the thoughts don't make me cry anymore. I'm getting on with my life. If he asked me back I probably would go back but its really really unlikely so I'm just getting on with it. Going out with friends and stuff. I still can't believe that its over sometimes, but at other times its hard to believe I was ever with him. Weird.
sweetheart5381 Posted April 23, 2012 Posted April 23, 2012 Its been about 2 months since the BU. Its been 2 weeks since I last spoke to him and the last time I cried. He's still there and I still think about him but not obsessively like I was. And the thoughts don't make me cry anymore. I'm getting on with my life. If he asked me back I probably would go back but its really really unlikely so I'm just getting on with it. Going out with friends and stuff. I still can't believe that its over sometimes, but at other times its hard to believe I was ever with him. Weird. Ya, it's funny how that happens. Today I actually looked at my ex from a distance and thought, "Man, what the hell was I thinking?" at the thought of how heartbroken I was over the b/u. The good times weren't really that good and the bad times were very troubling for me. Reality sets in eventually, once all the love hormones are set aside. Glad to hear you are making progress Baby steps... then one day, the hurt will be gone.
Author mymission Posted April 24, 2012 Author Posted April 24, 2012 Yeah thanks hopefully with baby steps it will happen for both of us
5-F Dawg Posted April 25, 2012 Posted April 25, 2012 like said before me its all baby steps...take one day at a time...use your friends, family, school, work to keep your self busy and all will be okay.. just an idea, find a organization that helps you network/meet people...theres a kickball league in my town and its a freakin blast!
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