J0N Posted April 23, 2012 Posted April 23, 2012 [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3]Hi,[/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [sIZE=3][FONT=Calibri] I am new to thissection of the forum. I am in need of some advice, though I think that most ofyou may see an obvious answer to my question. So first a little backstory. Imet a girl a few weeks ago at a party at a friend’s place, we started chattingand after a while we decided to leave the party together and get something toeat. We went to a nice restaurant, had a great dinner, and even went out for acouple more drinks afterwards. I ended up walking her back to her place,kissing her goodnight and went home. She FB me the next morning saying that shewas really excited to have met me and said we should go to brunch (the nextday) she also included her number and said to text/call her if interested. Iwent, and we had an awesome time, we both had quite a few drinks. In the cabride home, we were making out like 8[/FONT][/sIZE][sIZE=2][FONT=Calibri]th[sIZE=3] graders. I dropped her off ather place, and left (I may have gone up, but I had an early meeting at work andthat would have probably been a bad idea). After this, due to our differingschedules about a month went by before we saw each other again, we wouldoccasionally text and whatever but neither of us could meet up. So finally abouta month after we first met, we went out on another date, this time more formal.We met up for drinks and then went to a great restaurant; we had an awesomeconversation and a really awesome time. She said she had to be somewhere earlyin the morning, so I dropped her off at her place. I got a text a few minuteslater saying “I had a great time with you tonight, and I am looking forward tohanging out with you soon [/sIZE][/FONT][/sIZE][sIZE=3]J[FONT=Calibri]”[/FONT][/sIZE] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3]I was feeling pretty good about this. I was excited that Ihad met someone new that I actually really liked. She texted me mid-week lastweek and invited me to a party she was having at her place. I went, and for thefirst half of the party I was having a really good time. Then a friend of hersfrom back home showed up with a few of his guy friends who were in for theweekend. This wasn’t really an issue, they were cool guys and everybody washaving a good time. Then things got a little strange. She sat down next to oneof these guys and was visibly flirting with him. She was laughing at his jokes thatweren’t funny, touching him, etc. She was CLEARLY ignoring me. One of the guysgot a call from another of their friends and headed out to a bar, I thoughtthings were good again. She started talking to me again, I wasn’t so worried.Then somebody at the party suggested we all go out. She insisted that we all goto the bar that the guys went to even though most of the people at the party didn’twant to go there. Eventually we all went; she said to me that I should come too.So I did. Once we got there she went right over to the guys and was chatting itup with the guy she had been flirting with earlier. I tried to join the conversation,but was quickly sort of duffed off. I started talking to one of her friends whohad told me that the girl that I like had been talking a lot about me in a goodway, blah, blah, blah. [/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3]After trying again to join the conversation with the girland failing, I decided that enough was enough. I set my drink down and quietlywalked out. I didn’t say anything to her. I just left. Bear in mind she wasprobably really drunk, but I don’t even think she noticed that I left. Thisreally bothered me.[/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3]The question is… What do I do now? Just forget about her? Ireally liked this girl and everything I knew of her she had never acted likethis. I do feel like a chump though, we probably went out on 5 or so dates toreally fancy places. I kind of feel like she just used me. What should I do ifshe calls/texts? I am not really into playing games, but I could use some goodadvice here. [/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Calibri][sIZE=3]Thanks in advance for your help and advice.[/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Times New Roman][sIZE=3][/sIZE][/FONT]
Author J0N Posted April 23, 2012 Author Posted April 23, 2012 My apologies, usually I type up posts in word first so I can spell check them. It didnt paste over very well this time. Moderators, please delete this post. I am not a spammer!
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