Author My_love Posted April 24, 2012 Author Posted April 24, 2012 Haha! Thanks!!! I guess hearing from other people who have been in the same situation makes me realize that I am not crazy! This entire year has been hell! I know that he wants me just to accept whatever crap he gives me and shut up about it, but it bothers me day and night! I just don't get it nor will I ever....... Also, my oldest son is starting to do to his family the exact same thing that his dad did. History is repeating its self, just like it did for me. I saw my father run around on my Mom my entire life. He was always the life of the party, and she just stayed home raising us and took it. He always praised her for being so strong, but I really think she was weak. I don't think my son is at the point of actually cheating yet, but he is in the partying phase choosing to spend all of his time away from home instead of accepting his responsibilities. The cheating will be next if I don't get his attention. So the decision that I am coming to is not taken lightly. I feel like NOW is the time to make the example of exactly what that lifestyle leads to and not let my daughters see, like my mom showed me, that it is okay to put your head in the sand and wish it away...I'm not blaming her for a second, I'm sure that she did what she thought was right at the time, but girls need stronger examples of standing up for themselves.....And I don't ever want either of my daughters to think it is okay to take this kind of ****. I do not think you should walk away the minute that there is any kind of trouble, but if you can truly say to yourself that you've done everything humanly possible to make it work, and it isn't working, it's time to go.....Maybe he should see exactly what life is without me... 1
96nole Posted April 24, 2012 Posted April 24, 2012 What kind of person can knowingly be the OP? A selfish, disrespectful, dishonorable, piece of trash. And so is the cheater. You can only hope that real life will get in their way and their real selves will come out. We've been able to deal with our spouses through thick and thin. Will the OP be able to? Everything must still be sunshine and roses between my soon to be ex and her dirtbag. At some point that will have to end for them as well. Let him see life without you. I'm sure he'll see it's not so easy.
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