rbitrage Posted April 23, 2012 Posted April 23, 2012 So not sure what to make of this but I broke up with my gf less than two weeks ago because she was not putting in effort into the relationship. Granted she was very busy with work and exams, but it still didn't excuse her behavior. also what didn't help is that I became too accommodating of her behavior so she became even worse and the balance disappeared. Even talking about it wouldn't help, so a couple of weeks ago I suggested we take a break since she's trying to prepare for her exams etc anyways. Well none of my friends nor I expected me to hear from her because she's got a lot of pride and acted like taking a break was totally fine. Then out of the blue she texts me yesterday to see how I am doing and ask about my weekend. I responded politely but want to maintain LC or NC for now. I do want to be with her but not the way we were recently where I put in all the effort. Just don't know what I will do when she wants to meet up or talk about it because I think a certain amount of time needs to pass before we can do a reset on this relationship
loveshots Posted April 23, 2012 Posted April 23, 2012 Why did you think that a talk won't help? Have tried confronting her about her behavior?
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