loveshots Posted April 23, 2012 Posted April 23, 2012 me and my boyfriend just broke up.. well, i didn't even know how to explain but he said to me that he need a big space.. what am I suppose to do? Is that a "real" break-up? Or it means that I just have to wait for him? Actually it was my fault.. But I think it's a shallow reason for him to break our relationship.. The story goes this way.. Last 2010 we bought a blouse, it was not that expose, but it fits me great.. And he suddenly said that he doesn't want me to use that blouse. I didn't complain, because i don't want arguments. And this year, while we are in a "war" and NC for how many weeks, I used that blouse. Me and my cousins went to the church. And my cousin took a picture of me. And after how many months, my cousin posted that on facebook and then my boyfriend have seen it. And he thinks that it was just taken recently. He does not believe me because he thinks I am lying. It's just that he was close-minded, that why doesn't even try to understand me. He is so strict. But, I love him. And now i didn't know what to do because I miss him, but I am scared to talk to him because of that big space that he wants. what am I suppose to do?
january2011 Posted April 23, 2012 Posted April 23, 2012 Give him the space. For the rest of time. Move on. He's not making you happy. Doesn't trust you. And, as you said, doesn't even try to understand you. Stay strong and continue with NC.
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