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After having been chased all around a dance floor today by someone who did not seem to be picking up on the interaction between us, I remembered one of the surefire signs of whether someone likes you or not. Others have posted about this, but I wanted to emphasize it a bit more because it is really useful to know.

 

If the person likes having you physically close, it's a VERY good sign. Pay close attention to what s/he does when you move into his/her personal space. If s/he doesn't move away, try getting a little closer. If your approachee stops smiling or looks somehow uncomfortable - or moves away - that's not good. Mind you, if the place you get stopped from advancing is closer than the space allowed to others, it's still not negative.

 

Now, sometimes a person will think you've moved close by accident and will move away so not to infringe on your space, so give it a couple different tries at different times. Do NOT, whatever you do, follow if the person backs away!!!! But you can try again later. If the person moves away again, especially if facial expression changes, then your chances are not good.

 

If, on the other hand, the person stays in place or even moves closer to you, or leans towards you, or looks happy or pleased, then that's your signal that you have a good chance with him or her.

 

This link is for kids, but it's a good explanation about personal space:

 

http://www.geocities.com/thesciencefiles/personal/space.html

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So, moi, may I ask when you'll be seeing this guy again :) ?

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So, moi, may I ask when you'll be seeing this guy again ?

 

ROTFL - you mean Mr. Chase-around? He's already been told I was not interested and I was trying to get him out of my personal space :laugh:

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Ah but moi...he wants you! :p

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Ah but moi...he wants you!

 

 

:laugh::p

 

Well he ain't gettin' me and that's that! LOL. There's another dancer who seems quite taken with him and I believe they'd be a fine pair. And she's very happy to have him stand close to her :D

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Moi ~ Moi ~ Moi

 

You never fail to crack me up. I told you, next time he invades your personal space, step on his toes ... HARD ;)

 

LOL or set him up for a date with the lady who may well be interested and hope they are eternally bound to dance together :)

 

PS Moi ~ do you like me??

 

(ROFL :))

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Originally posted by sportsloving

 

LOL or set him up for a date with the lady who may well be interested and hope they are eternally bound to dance together :)

 

(ROFL :))

 

This would also be my suggestion...can you not spin him off in her direction on the dancefloor or something?

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People, believe me I'm trying!!! :D And I love ya both :):love::love: You can dance with me any old time you like :D

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Setting them up is easy as pie. Tell him you would love if he would come to this little get together at said resturant at said time, tell her the same, and of course don't appear unless you want to make sure that either shows up ;)

 

Letting nature take course and let the sparks fly, and may her space not be limited ;)

 

PS Moi, I love ya too but your PM box and I are arguing. It says it is full, I say it can not possibly be so ;)

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Hell's bells - I just cleaned that thing out! LOL

 

Listen, ladyboo is doing a fine enough job of wooing him herself. She monopolizes him during practices and bought him a birthday cake for his birthday a couple weeks ago. Short of stripping them both naked and pushing them at each other (ew!), I don't think my help is really necessary!!! LOL

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Originally posted by moimeme

Short of stripping them both naked and pushing them at each other (ew!), I don't think my help is really necessary!!! LOL

 

Ewwwww. Perhaps she should be stepping it up a bit eh? (hee hee, yep pun intended)

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Too bad we live so far away moi...given the extreme lack of people in the ballroom classes in my town, I could do with joining your group! But I suppose the other side of the world is a stretch :p

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Too bad we live so far away moi...given the extreme lack of people in the ballroom classes in my town, I could do with joining your group! But I suppose the other side of the world is a stretch

 

Well, the commute would be a beyatch, but I've got a guy in mind who, I'm sure, would love to partner you! :p

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Originally posted by moimeme

 

 

Well, the commute would be a beyatch, but I've got a guy in mind who, I'm sure, would love to partner you! :p

 

Run Think, Run! Ya know she is only wanting to push this little dude onto you so she can be free ~

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LOL! Perhaps the competition would inspire Bunnyboy to join me at dance classes? :bunny::laugh:

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