5-F Dawg Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Quick Story of my Relationship with her... Met over MySpace, talked for a few months...finally met and it was literally love at first sight... She was 17, I was 20 years, 2nd year of college. Started dating in . Overall I look back on the relationship and it was pretty darn good, lots of love and she was everything I was looking for, and hopefully vise versa. Pretty good for 3.5 years This year….. New Years Day 2012 she went on a trip/vacation with 3 of her friends to visit another in a different country. It was hard because I missed her but let her go and wished her to have fun, and was happy for her. She got back a few weeks later, and boom, there was just this stale air between us, and I never could touch on it. I asked her a few times what was going on between us and never got anywhere for answers. She had told me stories of partying and having fun with all her friends going to bars and whatnot…she never approved of my partying or drinking with my friends prior to the trip nor the 3.5 yeas we've been together. A week before Valentine’s Day I took her to the first spot we met at...a outside fast food restaurant, got there 5 min before and gave the manager a rose and a letter that I learn how to fold into a heart shape origami. Said some sweet things and asked her to be my valentines. She thought it was cute, and that was it:mad: and started talking briefly about our relationship, BOOM!!! she whipped out a letter that said how she’s been having trouble this last few months, and how 2 people who seem perfect aren’t, that this is the end of us being together, and she wants me to find amazing women who will love me for me, and that she wanted to end on good terms and not have resentment towards each other. It said how we have become too comfortable with each other and tried to make things work and that shell always be there for me... Signed her name and told me that she loved me... We talked for a few mins afterwards, I cried like a little B**** in front of her, she crying as well, talked for while longer about everything, and then kissed her on the lips and said good bye. She got out told me she loves me and got back into her car and drove off. Haven’t spoke to her since then, 2.5 months. No contact from me or her. I honestly thought I was going to die, but I’m doing better. Tomorrow is her bday. I want to text her soooo bad. I miss her like crazy and yet unsure of if I would ever get back with her. Do I text/call her for her bday? Well I decided to do it, and I sent her a msg saying" Happy Birthday (her name) Have a good day!" She responded promptly..."Thank you :)" and additional msg "I hope you're doing well" I decided not to respond. Me being an idiot, today looked on internet and saw that she went out with her friends and that shes been hanging with another man, and that she went out for her bday (she just turned 21)...i saw all the different pics and posts My heart aches for her, and i miss her like crazy!!! If things are meant to be will they come back together? Will I ever hear from her again? Why does my heart hurt?
january2011 Posted April 23, 2012 Posted April 23, 2012 Every time you get news about her or contact her, you're ripping off the band-aid and delaying your healing. That's why your heart hurts. Continue with NC. As an aside, rather than re-posting the entire background, it might be less confusing for your readers if you just link to your previous thread and only post whatever is new and significant.
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