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28 year old grad student from POF. Messaged her first on Thursday night, exchanged a few more messages, got her number.

 

Texts below:

 

Friday, Apr 13

Me (3:48) hey (name) it's spinaroonie. how ate you?

Her (3:56) Hey. Unwinding. Just got back from an exam

Me (4:11) nice. how was it

Her (4:15) It was ok. that was the 4th one this week...kind of stop caring at some point :-P

Me (4:19) lol ya I've been there. what are you taking at (school)

Her (4:22) Optometry. How long have u been out of school?

Me (4:28) nice you know my buddy (name)? he's is in it.. did my undergrad in (program) at (school), convocated 4 yrs back

Her (4:31) I do know him. I knew a friend of his before I got here...do u know a (name)?

Me (4:41) whoa small world. no

Her (4:45) Small world it is. Who needs 7 deg of separation when you guys from (school)!

Me (4:49) for sure. you seem pretty cool. what are you up to tonight

Her (4:54) Booked solid, lol. Everyone wants to head out to unwind after week one of exams. how was ur party last nite?

Me (5:08) good times. still recovering here in the office lol

Her (5:10) Work hard play hard, huh. found it odd u were going at like 1:30 am though. I guess no party really starts until ur there :-P

Me (5:14) lol u know me too well ;-) I was in Barcelona last year, they don't start clubbing till 2am

Her (5:20) Haha and thats like our 'last call'. Really is a shame. How long were u in barcelona?

Me (5:31) in Spain for a wk, hit up Ibiza as well. huge party island. ever been to Europe?

Her (6:10) I was in europe for about a week too. had a conference in amsterdam so I tagged on pit stops in paris and belgium before getting there. Really liked it there, esp. Belgium :-)

 

Saturday, Apr 14

Her (2:31) Did u send last night recovering?

Me (8:01) I'm now recovering from last night! how did your unwinding go last night

Her (8:09) Not too bad. A couple of glasses of wine did the trick :-P My girls did bail on me though for the afterparty!

Me (8:28) quit "wining" :-P you girls hit up (club)?

Her (8:29) Why did u see me there?

Me (8:33) saw a girl who looked familiar, may have been you. small world

Her (8:35) You should have said hi!

Me (8:35) ditto ;-) what were you wearing

Her (8:35) I'm joking. I wasn't there. a pick up line for you that actually is true!

Me (8:38) lol youre a tease

Her (8:39) I tried honesty...but u didn't believe me :-P

Me (8:46) so where do you reach usually. you don't strike me as a party girl

Her (8:47) Reach?

Me (8:47) lol it's (city) slang. where do you hit up

Her (8:55) (club) usually...place has always been dead though. Im usually the only person on the floor. People have hyped it up for no reason. But at leatr the musics good.

Her (8:57) By comparison to my class, I'm the partier and drinker. If I dont have to study for something, I want to go out. Just don't know too many people who feel the same :-(

Me (9:03) sweet work hard play hard and shake that booty. my philosophy

Her (9:06) Good. Does that mean u have rhythm? You're not the creepy guy at the club hanging out by the bar?

Me (9:08) nah I'm that creepy guy rubbing my crotch up your ass :-P

Her (9:10:59) Guess I have to lower my standard. Fine, as long as you're keeping with the music.

Me (9:22:12) my kinda gal. you into hip hop r&b? i'm going thru a 90s slow jam phase

Her (9:28) I actually like hiphop and reggae to dance to, but I tend to listen to old school rock, alt rock, etc

Me (9:30) nice I've been to the rock and roll half of fame in cleveland, theres some good stuff there

Me (9:32) i was goin thru a Beatles phase back then. I love that song "something", the one George Harrison wrote

Her (9:35) I have actually listened to them often enough :-( how about guns n' roses, joan jett, red hot chilli pepers, queen

Me (9:37) crazy I've got all of them on my iPhone! appetite for destruction is in my top 5 albums, queen is awesome too, gotta luv bohemian rhapsody

Her (9:37) I just listened to it :-) thank u

Me (9:38) lol someone has a big ego.. don't flatter yourself :-P

Her (9:40) Hah, not what meant. Looks who got the big ego!

Me (9:43) and now youre quoting beyonce and we all know what she really means...

Her (9:48) Yeah but she's talking about a guy who can actually back her claims ;-)

Me (9:55) it's not about the size of the boat it's the motion of the ocean ;-)

Her (9:57) Whatever helps u sleep at at night sweetie.

Me (9:59) youre a saucy lil munchkin

Her (10:03) I figure one makes up for the other

Me (10:06) if you mean my appendage you are mistaken my dear :-D

Her (10:08) I did not actually

Her (10:09) But thanks for clarifying

Me (10:13) lol this is why i'm not big on texting

Her (10:14) Hahaha guess you can't blame autocorrect or anything

Me (10:18) true. but you seem pretty cool and worth getting to know. how's your looking calendar this wk

Her (10:20) Exams mon wed and fri :-(

Me (10:22) how's next Sat

Her (10:29) Maybe. I have a friend who wanted to go out and party fri or sat. I'm letting her choose. I wouldnt mind having you there though :-) but I can do drinks this mon night if you're free

Me (10:38) mon should be good. I like (bar). know how to get there?

Her (10:39) Thw wings place? Yep

Me (10:43) cool lets meet at 9

Her (10:43) Works for me

Me (10:48) k gnite sassy lil munchkin ;-)

Her (10:49) Good nite mr. ego :-P

 

Monday, Apr 16

Me (6:26) hey shorty hope ur exam went well. at my office, gonna be a bit delayed. see you at 9:15

Her (6:28) No problem. See ya then

Her (9:15) Hey Im here and put my name down for a table. Theres a line!

Me (9:16) on my way

 

Met up at the bar, split a couple of pitchers. Brought her back to my pad and had sex.

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Congratulations

Posted

Congrats man.

 

The one thing I don't have is the "text game." I don't text often and if I do, I'm very punctual and try to write as close to grammatically correct as possible. My texts are usually pretty long and elaborate. I also avoid using smilies and the like.

 

If you read my texts, it's nearly impossible to be flirtatious. That's why reading yours, I kind of resent myself for being "too proper."

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Posted

long story short...

 

find a girl who is a partier and a drinker. This says nothing about you, OP.... glad you had fun though.

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Doesn't anyone else here think it is kinda skeevy the OP is posting a whole texting relationship?

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I thought this forum was for asking questions and not posting one night stands?

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