firehawk_1 Posted April 23, 2012 Posted April 23, 2012 not at all. i think its been misunderstood completely and everyone just jumping for the throat the solution is to be realistic and not to aim for something that potentially does not exist. you could be spending literally years doing this and not get far or wasting your time/life going by without getting far im just saying, be real thats all. at the end of the day no matter what you look like, your age, color, height etc.... both parties (men and women) appear to want a decent person whom you can connect and that comes from within inside. everything else is a bonus (sugar on top) Thats ALL im saying
firehawk_1 Posted April 23, 2012 Posted April 23, 2012 I don't have to date the divorced father of three who's looking for a women to help him rear his kids & pay his bills, no matter how often he might approach me, no matter how badly he might wish that I would "give him a shot" agreed and thats a different type of "standard" we are talking about but DO agree with that. its simple. to take advantage etc.. is not good
soserious1 Posted April 23, 2012 Posted April 23, 2012 not at all. i think its been misunderstood completely and everyone just jumping for the throat the solution is to be realistic and not to aim for something that potentially does not exist. you could be spending literally years doing this and not get far or wasting your time/life going by without getting far im just saying, be real thats all. at the end of the day no matter what you look like, your age, color, height etc.... both parties (men and women) appear to want a decent person whom you can connect and that comes from within inside. everything else is a bonus (sugar on top) Thats ALL im saying And you are missing the point that all people retain the right to set whatever standards & criteria they'd like for their prospective partners. Believe it or not a lot of people would rather be alone than be stuck with someone who doesn't meet their relationship critera & they get to decide that, not you. 1
firehawk_1 Posted April 23, 2012 Posted April 23, 2012 well duh - they would only be in a relationship or have that criteria if they had that mentality and didnt mess decent guys around in addition to being realistic.... jeez. sometimes I wonder why I bother.... ladies and gents - this just proves the point of the topic at hand.... impossible and unreal and people get off at this stuff enjoy the rest of your day...and dont slam the door when you leave
soserious1 Posted April 23, 2012 Posted April 23, 2012 well duh - they would only be in a relationship or have that criteria if they had that mentality and didnt mess decent guys around in addition to being realistic.... jeez. sometimes I wonder why I bother.... ladies and gents - this just proves the point of the topic at hand.... impossible and unreal and people get off at this stuff enjoy the rest of your day...and dont slam the door when you leave I'm sorry but declining an overture made on a dating site or deciding after meeting that a person isn't a good match for you doesn't qualify as "messing decent guys around" Why does it matter to you what standards other people set for their prospective partners? Shouldn't your main concern be on the standards you are setting for yours
soserious1 Posted April 23, 2012 Posted April 23, 2012 women would rather be alone than be with a guy who isn't hot. People do retain the right to decide they'd rather stay alone, nobody is obligated to alter their standards.
soserious1 Posted April 23, 2012 Posted April 23, 2012 how many hot guys are you ****ing at once? As many or as few as I chose.. just like any other single person
soserious1 Posted April 23, 2012 Posted April 23, 2012 if not more than ten. your business on a anonymous messageboard. All that matters is that I am honest with my intimate partners about the fact that the relationship isn't exclusive & that I am bedding others.
soserious1 Posted April 23, 2012 Posted April 23, 2012 women justify poor befhavior by hiding it. I'm not "hiding" anything, I give info on a "need to know" basis, since you aren't a prospective bed mate you have no need to know. 1
udolipixie Posted April 23, 2012 Posted April 23, 2012 Perhaps because you don't seem to understand or willing to understand that they need their partner to fit their strict standards/checklist in order to find them attractive, compatible, and have feelings for them. Entitlement to me is not having standards or a checklist but thinking I'm entitled to this or I deserve that. Sometimes with a reason as to why they're entitled to this or deserve that. Such as a guy thinking he deserves a particular gal because he's X which is based on his perception of himself rather than her perception of him. It's not because he has qualities she likes, wants, or desires it's because he wants her and thinks his reason unrelated entitles him to have her or be deserving of her rather than her wanting him or reciprocating.
udolipixie Posted April 23, 2012 Posted April 23, 2012 i'm entitled to sex in the next decade. it's been a ****ing decade since i've gotten any. If you wish to use legal options to fulfill you entitlement go pay a prostitute in a legal area or find a partner who wants to have sex with you without coercion. A bit illogical to me to state I'm entitled to X because I haven't had it for quite some time. 1
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