ButterflyPrincess Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 So yesterday I had another encounter with my BF's ex when she came to drop off his son for the weekend, and every time I've seen her lately it seems like she's more and more keen to get back with him (even though she's already in another relationship, but I digress). I don't know why I'm letting it get to me as much as it is; myself, my BF and our group of friends are all well aware that he doesn't want to get back with her (she went to give him a kiss yesterday, and he pulled away from her- she had to settle for a hug that he didn't even return). Still this was just another occurrence in a long string of incidents that pointed out how desperate she is to get back with him, and its annoying and frustrating for both me and BF
january2011 Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 I think it's down to him to maintain his boundaries. He needs to be direct and firm in telling her that she's crossed the line.
firehawk_1 Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 maybe however its about trust as well. you have him. dont be jelous. be grateful you have him. dont cause a drama. sit with him and TALK to him. not a shouting match. tell him how YOU feel
Author ButterflyPrincess Posted April 23, 2012 Author Posted April 23, 2012 maybe however its about trust as well. you have him. dont be jelous. be grateful you have him. dont cause a drama. sit with him and TALK to him. not a shouting match. tell him how YOU feel We've already discussed it together on a number of occasions- he finds her behavior even more frustrating than I do. The thing is, we're trying not to really confront her about it, just because their child is involved, and we don't want any major confrontation. In the meantime, we both just avoid her unless something comes up that's pertaining to the child. Too bad she just can't take a hint and do the same thing...
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