sarahkm Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 my ex texted me to hang out after 1 month NC. why???? he has a pretty public facebook and a few days after he contacted me, i see flirty messages on his wall, but i'm not sure if it means anything. i know there is no way to know what his real motives are, but i'm not sure if i should agree to hang out with him because i'm not over it yet. we broke up about 6 months ago. any advice as to what to do from here?
Author sarahkm Posted April 22, 2012 Author Posted April 22, 2012 why did you two part? I don't even know. Looking back the weeks leading up to it, he was distant. When we broke up, he said he couldn't see a future for us. No specifics.
darkmoon Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 (edited) only you can decide if you and he both want the same thing, he has said " he can't see a future for us" but he might have changed his mind but just until you know what he wants which could be: friends with benefits - or a fresh start - we cannot know for certain what he wants, but i still think of that song "never give up on a good thing" just meet him and see what develops Edited April 22, 2012 by darkmoon
aliii Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 I would say go, let him do the talk, do not decide anything if he asks you, give it a thought for a couple of days see how you feel and if its something you both want. If he just wants to "hang out" without talking about anything specific (as friends) and if that hurts you or it doesn't suit you, then next time he asks you to "hang out" just DON'T. 1
HollyBolly Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 my ex texted me to hang out after 1 month NC. why???? he has a pretty public facebook and a few days after he contacted me, i see flirty messages on his wall, but i'm not sure if it means anything. i know there is no way to know what his real motives are, but i'm not sure if i should agree to hang out with him because i'm not over it yet. we broke up about 6 months ago. any advice as to what to do from here? That depends on whether you want him back. If you do, go test out the waters. If you don't then what's the point? You said it yourself, you're not over it yet.
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