PhillyDude Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 I don't know how to post attachments so I will just describe what i texted. Yesterday morning I sent a girl a good morning text with a rose I haven't heard from her since and when I called her tonight she didn't pick up. So I know what a no response to a text and a phone call means It's over. But I didn't think it was that bad. Just a ROSE on top of a good morning. Maybe I screwed up.
Author PhillyDude Posted April 22, 2012 Author Posted April 22, 2012 you're very emotional and touchy No with this call I just left a message saying good luck in her search. I was just stunned a "good morning with a rose attached" was a turn off
SJC2008 Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 How long have you been talking to her? Was there a date planned?
Jadempk Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 I guess it is different for everyone. I would find it very sweet and charming, and there isn't alot of that going around atm. I wouldn't stress over her reaction to it.
Author PhillyDude Posted April 22, 2012 Author Posted April 22, 2012 How long have you been talking to her? Was there a date planned? since last saturday. I want to post it but don't know how. I thought u can post attachments on this site
SJC2008 Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 I'd shy away from good morning messages until you've been dating for a while IMO.
Star Gazer Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 That is a strange message to send someone you've never met.
eleanorhurting Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 well congrats for not coming off as a douche B in one of your threads 2
NateC Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 I'd shy away from good morning messages until you've been dating for a while IMO. I send them occasionally to friends (girls, obviously) and they respond to them most of the time. I really don't see the big deal unless you're being stalkerish or you're messaging basically a stranger.
Author PhillyDude Posted April 22, 2012 Author Posted April 22, 2012 Does anyone know how to include ATTACHMENTS so I can show everyone what I sent?
Star Gazer Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 I send them occasionally to friends (girls, obviously) and they respond to them most of the time. I really don't see the big deal unless you're being stalkerish or you're messaging basically a stranger. Which is what the woman in question was.
Anela Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Does anyone know how to include ATTACHMENTS so I can show everyone what I sent? You can upload someting to imgur.com, photobucket.com, etc, and link to the image.
Ginger Grant Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 since last saturday. I want to post it but don't know how. I thought u can post attachments on this site I'm betting she already make up her mind about you, before you sent the text. Tell us other coneversatios you had with her, prior to sending the text. 1
FitChick Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 No with this call I just left a message saying good luck in her search. I was just stunned a "good morning with a rose attached" was a turn off So you essentially told her to get lost yet you expect a response? BANG! (sound of PhillyDude shooting himself in the foot yet again)
firehawk_1 Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 I do think that such behavior from women is a little unreasonable. i mean at the end of the day they moan and complain they want a man who is decent and who is romantic or nice, charming blah blah and we have been brought up with manners and respect. then this. then you wonder why you cant find someone decent.... 1
Author PhillyDude Posted April 22, 2012 Author Posted April 22, 2012 So you essentially told her to get lost yet you expect a response? BANG! (sound of PhillyDude shooting himself in the foot yet again) No, she called Thursday night at 1am, we talked and she said call her on Friday. When I woke up Friday i sent the good morning text and she never responded. I didn't call her on friday at all. I decided to call her last night and when I got no answer on top of my text being ignored, I knew it was over Remember guys, a ignored text followed by a unanswered call means that it's over
Author PhillyDude Posted April 22, 2012 Author Posted April 22, 2012 I do think that such behavior from women is a little unreasonable. i mean at the end of the day they moan and complain they want a man who is decent and who is romantic or nice, charming blah blah and we have been brought up with manners and respect. then this. then you wonder why you cant find someone decent.... She probably would have been more flattered if I sent a picture of my "d*ck"
FitChick Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 I'm confused. You said, "Good luck on your search" which is what people say when they aren't interested in someone. That's what I say. Did you mean she was searching for a pair of shoes to wear on your date? Searching for a restaurant to meet?
Author PhillyDude Posted April 22, 2012 Author Posted April 22, 2012 I'm confused. You said, "Good luck on your search" which is what people say when they aren't interested in someone. That's what I say. Did you mean she was searching for a pair of shoes to wear on your date? Searching for a restaurant to meet? I meant her search for a MATE. She had already told me the bad experience she had with meeting a guy at her house and he taking off his pants so they can have sex and how she was so messed up by that I guess she called him back and liked what she saw after all
Flummox Posted April 22, 2012 Posted April 22, 2012 Not quite as bad as sending her a piece of your ear but getting there. 1
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